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Well said HannahB! could not agre with you more.

To HannahB, Uh, It WAS her imagination.....she wasn't pg in Nov and Dec, she didn't feel movement at 6 weeks and she certainly wasn't feeling two different placentas at 5 weeks pg. If Kim had taken a different approach, like asking what the heck could this be, as opposed to I know my own body and the Dr. are idiots, it is twins/triplets maybe the reaction would have been different. As far as multiple moms go, no we aren't gods, but there are nurmerous ladies coming to this board and asking us if it is twins We get tired of answering the questions over and over and over and over(you get the picture). You sure sound like one bitter woman. And multiples ARE special regardless of what you think. AND being a mom of multiples IS a big deal, if you don't think so you must not be doing it right.

Let me clarify what I meant by it WAS a big deal. Dealing with 2,3,4 babies the same age is tough. Meeting the needs of all takes strength and energy and help. Someone w/o multiples may not understand it. Having kids close together isn't the same as multiples. I didn't want multiples either....but I feel very blessed that I have them.

Really any child is a blessing. However more babies at the same time means more work, more complications, more worry, more fear...yadayadayada. It's common sence & basic logic & I'm afraid that some of you "ladies" are totally missing that!

Of course every child is a blessing, everyone knows that. Bitter? Perhaps you chose the wrong word there since there is nothing similar to that in what I said. Sure it's tough having more than 1 baby at a time, but it's not any more important. It's just a quicker way to over-populate the earth. I read Kim's first question, she said that she THOUGHT she was having multiples and then once attacked by someone who claims that they get sick of answering questions over and over yet talks about being part of so many groups/forums, she got defensive. And for all you know, she could have been pregnant, unknowingly had a miscarriage, and then got pregnant again which could have caused her being so off on how far along she is. The only bitter person is the one attacking someone, whether she's lying or not, and then claiming it is because her kids' pictures were stolen. You need to get over that, you should not have posted them in a public forum in the first place... what kind of mother would put their children in a position like that? You were attacking her not going to the hospital when you felt it necessary, what kind of mother yadda yadda yadda, and yet you are no better. Weak people who cannot control reality attack people online. How dare you get so indignant with someone for defending her or believing her. It wasn't as if she ever asked for anything except a few answers, What was the harm there that you felt it your right to question her motives and morals and even insult her. Again, having multiples is no bigger deal than having one child, it doesn't make you better or worse than anyone else, just some woman who had more than one baby at a time. Oh, and if you want to get all high and mighty, twins are not near as high risk at triplets and you don't hear me in here b__win my horn about it, nor the people with quads +. Be a grown up and move on. You keep checking this thread. Are you obsessed with the drama, or just addicted to conflict?

& you Hannah dear, are you rude or just nasty?

Hannah, read her orginal post. She made the statement SEVERAL times that it WAS multiples, not that she thought it was. The following are quotes from her posts "I down right, no ifs, ands, buts, or supposes...Fell 3 separate bodies inside of me", "Now I'm biting my nails because I know it's more then one...But HOW MANY????" "I can definitely feel that there is more then one and I've known for quite some time", As far as high and mighty...I never took that att_tude. I simply stated that all that she was claiming WAS impossible....I especially like the one about getting pg a the month and a half that her dh was away.

as far as the drama....why did you feel the need to step in and restart it all, bring it up to the top. Take your own advice and quick posting on the thread. Oh but I guess you feel you should put your 2 cents in and the rest of us should take the high road and not respond to your nastiness. I was never indignant at ppl defending her...I was just surprised given all the facts that didn't add up. As far as my picture, lesson learned. I know now not to put them on an unprotected forum. I guess you are such a better mother that you never created a website to share yours. I never said that having multiples made me better...plz point out where I said that. You a__sumed, and a__sumptions just make an a__s out of u & me.....I simply said multiples are harder to deal with.

I am unpleasantly blunt. The only people I offend are people who know it's true. There was no a__sumption either, you exhibit the behavior and mentality of "holier than thou." Funny how you can learn your own lessons yet scold others for doing so. Corona reminds me of that one idiot friend everyone has with no opinion that always stands in the background saying "yeah!" to what everyone else says. If you are dumb enough to still keep trying to defend yourself to a stranger, that's outstanding and good luck with it. I'm not going to post back to you because there is no way to get through to stupid people. It's about as successful as teaching calculus to a retard on sedatives. I feel very sorry for your children. With you as a mother, they have little to no chance of being intelligent and productive. Well my lunch is over. Have a great weekend ladies!

Well I can promise that I will never again place you in the "ladies" category as you seem simply to be a cruel idiot yourself!! Read all the d__n posts you fool before you judge others. Actually better yet...go pretend to be a nice person to your children. I hope for their sake that you at least try to act like a decent person in order to teach them some morals!!! As for no opinion of my own...I'm too much of a mother myself to tell you exactly what I think of your poor behavior. Seeing as you think you're so wise...read between the lines & figure it out for yourself!!!

Twins4us...how are you doing? Kim...have you had any further follow up from you doctor? Any idea when you may get more results? I'm sure all is going to be fine & your little one will be strong & healthy. Hannah...I'm sure door #3 is still available!

I just wanted to add to twins4us post recently about me NOT being pregnant in Nove & Dec. My doctor says I am actually 19 weeks as of Sat and I was pregnant in November (last week or 2) All of December and since. Just wanted to let you know..Thanks

Kim- that is impossible if you are due on Sept.15! You were DEFINITELY not pregnant in November and in the beginning of December you were starting your period. You should have started your period on December 9 to have a due date of September 15- to be exact which puts your conception date (you know the date the sperm and egg got together) on December 23. That is the day you got pregnant. (according to a due date of September 15). You can go online and figure these dates out VERY easily! If you got pregnant in November your due date would be in August.

Look I can only go by what my doctor said, Also I did not have a period in Nov or December. I can only go by what she said. And she said something about using 5 weeks in a month...WHy are you arguing me? I can only tell you what I am being told. What period are you talking about??? I did not have a period in December or Nov. I did that itty bitty spotting stuff I do when I'm pregnant in the beginning. But that's it. She said I was 7 weeks on Jan 23rd. Which means all of December and January pregnant. And in my case possibly the last week of Nov. Call Chester Co OB/GYN I don't know what to say.

And as far as being due in August I did get an August due date. But this was by another doctor that looked at me in the emergency room for my gall stones. I'm sooo sorry. I'm not lying. How do you think I feel?? I'm just stating what the machine gave them on the 11th of April. My 3rd daughter was due on March 15th. And this is what the U/S ALWAYS read. She was born Feb 7th weighing 8 pounds.

I feel like c___p for coming here! The doctors never line up with the pregnancy and my U/S are never accurate. How do you think I feel?? Every U/S I have ever had, something was off and the baby did NOT come within 4 weeks of when it said it was coming. How do I explain this??? You keep arguing me but I am not the machine!