Is It Normal For A Guy To React Badly To Pregnancy News

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CRIGI - September 24

Im just worried about how my boyfriend reacted to me when I told him that I was pregnant. He seem not to care too much about the whole thing. He doesnt want me to tell my friends about it. I dont see any thing wrong with that beacuse they will eventually find out when my stomach shows. Some of them have already commented on my morning sickness but my boyfriend still doesnt want alot of people to know about it. He is all the time angry and gets upset towards me which makes me depressed most of the time. I dont want to stress my baby. I am happy about the news but my boyfriend is not too keen. Is it normal for him to behave that way?

 

HappinessIsHugs - August 4

Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for men to become aggressive toward their pregnant women. This is even more true if it's not something you planned together and if you aren't married. (Although it can also happen in married couples.) You don't mention that's he's been abusive, just indifferent, which is still painful. He may not have been ready to become a father, and it sounds as though he's not committed to you and the baby. I think you do need to decide if you two are going to come together to care for this baby -- consider making a real commitment, like marriage -- or if you are going to have to do this on your own.

 

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