Unrotected Sex 5 Days Ago

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rya14 - May 20

Ok..so I am not here to be lectured about safe s_x and all that. I am 29 and well educated on s_xual reproduction, although we do thing from time to time This guy i was dating just got home from being deployed the past 6 months. I am in bc pills, tri-sprintec. I missed about 4 pills due to a crazy week of work and my brother being in a bad car accident. Now that he is home, him and I had unprotected s_x in the heat of the moment He did not go inside me. He pulled out about 2 mins before he even finished on my stomach. That was 5 days ago. I just went to the bathroom and there was a pin size of pink discharge. Is it too soon for any symptoms? Am I freaking out? And yes I know you can get pregnant if you dont take your BC correctly. Any help would be appreciated as Im freaking out.

 

Grandpa Viv - May 20

If that spot was two weeks before your expected period it could represent ovulation, if one week before it could be implantation. "Heat of the moment" s_x suggests high libido which in turn suggests ovulation was close. If you are getting pregnant there may be signs in the coming week like weird cramps, unusual fatigue etc. You may also be simply experiencing the effect of four missed pills. Test when your period is due using first morning pee. GL!

 

rya14 - May 20

It was a heat of the moment type I say Bc it was the first time we seen each other in 6 months. He was deployed in Afghanistan n just got back.

 

rya14 - May 20

Also right now I'm experiencing clear and stretchy discharge

 

Grandpa Viv - May 20

Glad to hear you are supporting the troops! When were you originally expecting your next period?

 

rya14 - May 20

If i took my pills correctly my week of sugar pills would start next sunday, but since i messed up I am on my second week of pills. I was debating on if I should stop taking my pills to see if I get my period when Im supposed to or finish the pack. Him and I were s_xually active before he left. We decided to not give ourselves an official t_tle as we met a few months before he was deployed. My one friend is filling my head with stuff Im 100% to blame and all...thats why im paranoid.

 

rya14 - May 20

Also, my last period started may 3rd and lasted until about May 7th...we had s_x on May 14th

 

Grandpa Viv - May 21

Rya, your discharge suggests you are now about to ovulate, several days late perhaps due to the pill mess-up. Your s_x was long enough ago that sperm is probably no longer viable and anyway the exposure was minimal. I doubt you are getting pregnant. My suggestion is to keep taking your pills, don't be surprised if your bleed is late, and run a home test if and when it is a week late. Don't let anyone heap blame on your shoulders alone - it takes two to tango. GL!

 

rya14 - May 21

Than you so much! It def takes two to tango so I don't know why my friend is said that. She has no room to talk. She is some guys mistress and is paid by him to not tell anyone their kid is his. My friend who does family planning told me to check my cervix. I've never done it but to me it felt high up and soft I think haha. There was a tiny bit of bright red blood on my finger. Does that mean anything? In tue past when I have messed up pills my period came as scheduled so well see. I also can't go by if I'm gasey or have cramps as I have crohns so I am always like that. Lol. Now as of yesterday and today I have no discharge at all. Thank you so much for your info I really appreciate it and that I can talk to someone without telling me I'm stupid.

 

Grandpa Viv - May 21

The soft high cervix suggests ovulation is close, the spot of blood that it has already occurred. It will be interesting to see if your period comes on time or late. Most commonly it comes 14 days plus or minus 2 days after ovulation.

 

rya14 - May 21

I literally just checked my cervix again Bc now I am curious about it lol. It feels lower from yest. Of course I am only going by how far I have to put my finger in to reach it. And you're sure I'm okay? I kinda wanna mention it to the bf but I don't wanna freak him out if no need too.

 

rya14 - May 22

today i had some clear discharge with a spot of brown. what is that? also, could it be bc I had taken my birth control about an hour before?

 

Grandpa Viv - May 22

Rya, you are in the two week wait and trying to over a___lyze things. Next thing you know you will be psyching yourself into early pregnancy signs. Relax and go about your business. Run a home pregnancy test next Sunday first morning pee and repeat a week later for confirmation. GL!

 

rya14 - May 27

Just an update. I got my period this morning. im a__suming its the start of my period..i have bad cramps and blood when i wipe

 

Grandpa Viv - May 27

Thanks for the update, Rya. It is valuable for others trying to learn.

 

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