Can Any Guys Give Me Some Help Please
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I'm pregnant right now with my me and my fiances second child. Lately he is mean to me all the time. When things happen it is always my fault. Even if it is something that shouldn't be that big of a deal it becomes a big deal and it is ALWAYS my fault. He doesn't pay any attention to things that upset me, doesn't even seem to care about them. Could it be that the fact that he just found out I was pregnant again has him on edge, so he is just being moody and I should ignore it. Or is it something more. Sorry sooo long, but my basic question is...if you really love the woman you are with would any of you treat her that way, or would you only treat a woman you were with that way if you didn't really care? Please respond. I need to know.
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Worried, first congratulations!
I maybe old school, but I always try to shield my wife from minor upsetting things especially while she's pregnant, and create a happy atmosphere at home.
Your fiancee may be too caught up in his own changing emotions and ignoring and over-reacting to everything else.
I'd say try to communicate this to him just like you did to this forum. Ask him if he's upset about something and offer support. Let him also know how you feel, not in a finger-pointing way, but in a concerned and honest manner. He may need time, but honest communication may accelerate the process. Good luck with everything.
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