I Want A Baby-pg113698653918
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im 19, my partner is 20. we are both at university but mine is full time and he is part time because he works as a quant_ty surveyor for a leading house building company. he is on a very good wage and has a great future in the company. we have our own home and everything so we have a great setting to have a child. he really wants a baby and so do i. i feel very ready and know that i could take very good care of it.,but im scared il be judged too much for doing it. plus it would mean id have to leave uni although im thinking of doing so anyway because im not happy.im thinking of becoming an estate agent. am i too young or does age not count.please give me advise someone.
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 | Loz - January 11 |
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If you actually have to come on here, and ask strangers what they think about your life, then i'd say your not ready. I'm 19 also, and me and my partner are trying, but we know were ready, no questions asked! We don't have to justify our selves to strangers too! Sorry - just my opinion!
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lol no offense but I agree...I hate when people have to ask "do you think I am ready?!" How would we know? All we know is what you tell us.
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It is also true,that if you need to ask then you are not ready,equally though,you may have someone with the att_tude that they want a baby,to hell what others think,and go into it too lightly.You are very young,and the rest of your life will be affected,tied,freedom gone,freedom to do nothing if you want,money can be a problem,and the relationship could change with your partner,not always for the better,a child can stress a relationship,not bind it.
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Just wait one year and see how you feel. This isn't a decision to rush into. Would you like to be married first? Why do you want a baby, you didn't really say?
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I think that one way to measure maturity is by how much you care about what other people think. If the thing keeping you from having a child is worry about how much otehrs will judge you, maybe you should wait until you are a little older. The more you mature, the less it matters what other people think. TAMMY: Are you advertising???
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Hey Everyone! My names Elise and I am head of a site called Bundlesoflove where we support Teens TTC! So if you want to post , chat , and meet other Teens that TTC without unwanted interruptions. It is easy to join my organization! You can contact me at TeenParentsRock@yahoo.com I hope to hear from you soon! ~lots of love and support ~ EliseMichelle
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In my oppinion and yes i would say this to anyone if you have to ask then to me the answer is NO your not ready when you are actually ready then you wont feel the need to tell ppl about your life and ask them if you are ready there should be no doubts and no questions about it you will know when are ready..... Also why not try waiting until AT LEAST one of you is done with college it may be a better idea.
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