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my wife came from a good family.she has a good relationship with her parents.i dont think there was any type of abuse.my daughter looks just like me im positive im the father.my wife has always been jealous of me im surprised she even lets me work.but ever since she had the baby shes been a nightmare to live with.i cant even sit in the living room she says its to close to the babys room i either stay in the kitchen or in my bedroom.if my wife goes any where with me she has her sister to come over and stay with the baby.i dont understand why in the hell my wife is so jealous of our daughter.she said well if the kid would have been a boy then you could have held him and helped take care of him.but you dont need to hold any other female but me.hell i cant talk to her about anything she flies off the handle to eaisly.she will either cuss in my face or hit me.and i dont beleive in hitting women but sometimes i want to hit her so bad.i thank you folks for taking time to try to help me figure her out.but i dont want to be a nussiance to anyone.i just dont know what to do about this woman.i cant beleive shes so angry because our daughter looks like me.at least thats what everyone says.well thank you all very much for your time.

Steven, You seriously need to get your family some counseling. What does her sister and the rest of her family think of this? You might all have to get together and have an intervention. Her violence is not good in any situation, but especially around your daughter.

can anyone help me with this please?i had a baby 18 mos ago during the whole pregnancy i suffered severly with heart burn.and my throat still hurts.my left tonsil is even larger than the right one.and my throat burns alot.and my enlarged tonsil throbs alot.i went to a throat specialist about a month after i had my son and he told me it was from acid reflux.he said it burnt my esophgus.has anyone else went through this?or know of anyone who has?i am really worried.i dont have any insurance to see another doctor.this throat problem really scares me.its been this way for two years.somedays it bothers me more than others.especially if i eat something hot or spicy.so if you can please reply to this question.im so worried and have been for a long time.thanks for any help any of you can give.

Steven, I guess I am wondering why you just don't put your foot down and tell her she is your daughter also and you are going to hold her and love her and you need to accept it. You need to talk about why she is so jealous and what needs to be done about it.. You are missing out on fatherhood and that isn't good for any of you. She needs to get over this jealousy thing and wake up, the fact is you have a daughter and she looks like you and your wife needs to get over herself. You and your daughter are missing out on a relationship and bonding between you. I wouldn't dream of doing that to my husband he is a great dad and we have 5 kids. I love it when he takes the kids so that I have time to myself. There still must be some deep issue, because the way she is acting isn't normal. Blessings - Hope you figure things out before it's too late.

joanne,i tried months ago to put my foot down.i asked to hold the baby and my wife just flipped out.she screamed at me,accused me of being a pervert.said men dont need to hold girls.her family dont have a clue as of how she acts.she puts up a front when there around.but still wont let me near the baby.i remember one time when her sister and neice was at our house i was sitting on our bed and my wife and her sister walked in the bedroom well her neice came in also and had the baby my wife quickly gave me a real dirty look.her neice walked over to the bed and laid the baby down for a minute,well after they left my wife rushed the baby back to her room then came flying back into the bedroom grabbed our sheets off the bed and washed them saying they were dirty because the baby laid on them.she is so hard to deal with.and if she says anything at all to me about the baby she refers to our daughter as (that thing)i dont know how to take care of a baby really.so far being a daddy has not been much fun if you know what i mean.and this is to samantha,i dont know anything about about heartburn or acid reflux but im sure someone on here will be able to help you out.i wish i could.just dont worry so much im sure your okay.

To Steven, how are things going? i just read your last statement your wife really needs help, I feel so bad for you, you need to get her help before it's to late. what if she tries hurting your daughter???? has she always been like this?? have you talked to her or your family??? maybe you should tell them whats going on whatever it is maybe they can help!!!! you need to protect that baby and yourself please take this advice and do something!!!!

my wife has always been extremely jealous over everything like tv,women who work in grocery stores,the bank,gas stations,even my own mother and sister.she dont like my family and keeps me from them much as possible.but the whole time she was pregnant even after she found out she was having a girl she acted excited.she would tell me your going to have a little girl you will have to play baby dolls with her when she gets old enough.she would say i hope she looks like you,kiss my belly and tell madison you love her.i even went to every single doctor app.she had.when she had the baby she had me to hold her feed her and showed me how to change her diaper everything was fine.then we get home and after a couple weeks she just let me hold the baby less and less.then just completely shut me out of the babys life.she loves the baby she just is to d__n jealous to let me be with the baby.i can her in the babys room singing to madison some days.i never hear the baby cry when brenda is in there.i find receipts from where she buys the baby toys and clothes.i dont beleive she would do anything to hurt our daughter.but if she ever did i would break her nose i really would.maybe i should record how she acts when i mention anything about the baby.do you think her jealously of everything else is overboard?im only aloud to watch cartoons and we dont have cable we have a vcr and millions of cartoon tapes thats it.i cant even like any songs sung by a female singer.she goes to the doctor next tuesday to see if shes pregnant.she had a positive home pregnancy test.with all the hell im already going through i hope shes not really pregnant.i dont want to stay with her but how do i walk out on my unborn baby if there is one?i cant take care of a baby on my own.madison is really the first baby i ever held i mean little baby i ever held.

I want to encourage you by sharing that I have a beautiful baby girl who is 8 months old now, and I too had a c-section. I recently called my doctor to share with her my concerns, because my husband and I want to start trying to conceive again. I told her all the things I had heard about waiting a certian amount of time, and she told me that it completely depends on the individual. I think the smartest thing for you to do is speak with your doctor. It is easy to get confused with so many different opinions, and with not so many answers. The best advice I can leave you with is to pray for Jesus's will to be done. He lets us borrow these little precious gifts to raise and love, and he truely decides when the right time is!!!!! Jesus Loves You and The Precious Baby you are carrying!!!!! So never be confused about being happy or sad!!! Be Happy and Thank Him!!!

I was going to post a similar question. There is a chance I may be pg. I am getting a blood test this week. I had a positive pregnancy test, but it was followed by some bleeding, so we suspect a possible early miscarriage. My last period was about six weeks ago and my son is almost four months old! They would be less than a year apart if I am still pregnant. We were on birth control this month when we conceived.

To Steven I can't believe what I just read about your wife, she is obviously very selffish, any person in there right mind would'nt act like this. she seems very controlling i understand you probably don't want to leave your wife or child or could be children but you need to do something SERIOUSLY!!! you wife seems very immature and thinks the whole world revolves around her, Lord forgive me but she seems to be a Moron, I usually don't judge people but come on this is not right well GOOD LUCK!!!!! LATER!!

well it has been confirmed,my wife is 10wks pregnant.she went to the doctor this morning.brenda says the baby is a girl because the doctor said the heart rate was 176.dose a high heart rate positivly mean a girl?im a guy so i dont know how these things work.brenda is excited she already has a girl name picked out.i cant say i showed much excitement and she wondered why.hell it should be obvious.nothing else has changed.i still dont get to see my daughter.i guess that will never change.well thats all i need to say for now.

To Steven Guess Your giving up??? well I will say a prayer for you and I hope all things work out keep everone informed about how your doing. take care and congrats!!!!

DONT BE SCARED EVERYTHING SHOULD BE FINE LEAVE IT ALL TO GOD HANDS.IM RECENTLY 8 MONTHS PREGNAT AND IM HAVING A BOY. I HAVE A 1 YEAR OLD DAUGTHER MY DOCTOR SO FAR SAYS THAT IM SO HEALTHY ITS SCARY AND THAT MY C-SECTION EVERYTHING SHOULD BE PERFECT SO BE HAPPY AND ENJOY YOUR SECOND PREGNANCY!

I just need to ask if anyone has had pain around there cesarean scar going into a new pregnancy. I had my son 2 years ago and I am 5 weeks pregnant again anf feel a lot of pulling and pain is that normal? Please someone answer!

tara,after i had my first c-section i got pregnant again and my scar bothers me.it feels sore and also when i get sweaty my scar burns but my obgyn said my incision has healed up really good.so dont worry.im sure its normal you can always mention it to your doctor.they can rea__sure you.

To Tara i had a c-section 10 mos ago and i've noticed some pulling i went to the doctors and they told me sometimes it can be your nerve endings so, but if your really concerned i would go see your doctor just in case. i also had a c-section and had similiar feelings, and it's probably your uterus stretching, so try and relax and congrats!!!