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So about 5 months ago my symptoms started. One by one. Swollen feet, moody, tiredness, throw up at certain smells, back ache, headache, pelvic hurting, emotional, ibs symptoms disappearing,  belly has expanded,hot flashes and felt some kind of movement recently and also my ribs hurting. At first I played off symptoms until hubby said it sounds like your pregnant so took test negative. I'm on the pill was still get a so called period but was weird there one day gone the next than back again. Now it's just spotting. All pee pregnancy tests come back negative. Got a blood test negative.  I did schedule  a pap but of course  my luck I got a medical student. They didn't check my cervix cause it's so far up it hurts when they check and I have to position diffrently. Anyway. Dr just brushed them off saying it's from the birth control. Anyone experience this? Any suggestions what to do. Seriously  when I explained  everything and got a blood test. They acted like I was crazy. So do I act more crazy and demand ultrasound or do I forget about and hope a baby just don't fall out. Worried cause my anxiety meds I need but wouldn't be good for a baby.