Pregnant But He Doesnt Want It

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laveda - January 27

im 7 weeks pregnant and i'm kind of joyful about it. my boyfriend on the other hand is absolutely against it, he says because we dont have our own apartment or anything. i want to keep the baby moe than anything but i dot want to jepordize my relationship because of it. i feel like i'm stuck because he tells me its my choice but when i said i want to keep it he completely stop talking to me until i said i would get rid of it. i don't know what to do..

 

thrboymom - January 28

laveda, go with your heart and don't let anyone, including your boyfriend, talk you into something you are not comfortable with. if abortion is something you are against, doing it to try and save your relationship will cause you to have feelings of guilt and resentment. this will ultimately ruin your relationship anyway. good luck with whatever you decide.

 

Jess17 - January 29

Laveda, I agree with thrboymom. If you want this baby (and you have the means to take care of it) then you should do what you want. It seems the way he is acting that he wouldn't be a very good father anyways. I dont mean to be rude or anything along those lines but do you really want your child to have a dad that might just leave you because of the child? It takes two to have a baby and he should man up and deal with the circ_mstances. You can find someone that would love to help you with your baby whether it is just a friend or a new boyfriend. No woman needs that kind of treatment. I wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy and your babies future.

 

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