Pregnant Girlfriend Being Very Distant
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hey, so I've been with my gf for only 3 months. She is now 10 weeks pregnant, it was unplanned and a huge shock to both of us when we found out. When we first started dating everything was going great. We spent a lot of time together and the intimacy was great, but now she is being very distant and difficult to even communicate with.
Ive texted her which I wouldn't usually do, I prefer to call her as that way I can gauge her emotions a little better. But she is ignoring all my calls and barely responds to any of my texts. I've tried arranging dates or a time when we can talk but she constantly swerves the questions, I am crazy about this girl and I really want us to work out, I've told her that I'm going to be there for her and the baby no matter what.
commumication is at a low right now and I've attempted to talk to her about it but she is still acting the same, it is beginning to really frustrate me, I'm a little lost as to what to do, anyone in a similar situation? Help!! It will be much appreciated.
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Pregnancy can really mess your hormones up and cause mood swings. You are saying that the pregnancy was a shock to you both, but just think about this, if it were such a huge shock to you, how big of a shock this was to your gf who would be carrying your baby in her belly. Maybe she is not feeling herself and still dealing with the fact that she is pregnant. Give her a lil bit of time, I know you love her. I am sure she ll come around.
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Thank you, like you say I can't possibly imagine what she is going through and how she is feeling now. But it's made so much more difficult when we do not communicate, all I want is to be there and support her as much as I can in any way that I can. It's been almost 2 weeks since I last seen her and she still isn't responding to any of my calls or texts, which makes it insanely difficult to at least attempt to understand how she is feeling and what she wants. Maybe I am being a little selfish, but if that's what it takes in this difficult situation to show her how much she and the baby means to me then that's what I will have to do, I don't want this to cause tension between us or for us to resent each other, I want for us to talk to work things out and for it to bring us closer together.
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