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Ok, so the hubby and I get into a huge fight last night! Humongous! What a d*ck! He told me that I was holding him back in life! Are you kidding me? Together for 10 years, kids, nice home etc., and he isn't where he wants to be because of me! He told me I could leave if I wanted to and take the newborn, but he gets the oldest child. WTF!! I told the a**shole, he wasn't getting either! When we first got married, we didn't get along very well at all, and actuallt split for 8 months. When we got back together, we had a baby and got things back on track. That was 4 years ago! All of a sudden, he has a few beers, and starts on my a**! That was the first time in 5 years that I have thought,"What would that pr*ck do, if he woke up one morning, and I was dead?" That would teach the f*cker! (I'm not talking suicide, I mean natural causes, or accident.) Maybe then he would learn to not take advantage of what you have! I hate feeling like that, especially towards my husband. I got no sleep last night, and have the most awful headache imaginable. Just becasue he wouldn't quit insulting me, and flapping off at the mouth! I just about kicked the j*rk in the b*lls!!! Thanks for letting me vent. I need no reply, just the thought of knowing I could get this off my chest, and having someone listen to me with no interruptions, makes me feel awesome!
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hey we all need to vent sometimes, i feel ya! Maybe its just the stress of the baby, and you two will settle down once you get a good routine down. Best of luck to you! If not, I can come kick him in the b___s for you, its my specialty!!
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You definitely have alot more patience then me... those b*lls would have been ringing long before the night ended if someone said that to me. Have you talked to him today after the few beers wore off? Maybe it was just the alchohol talking? Not that it makes it ok for him to act like that, just maybe that kick-started some other issues he is having and he took it all out on you instead.
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Sometimes I hate guys. Not just one, ALL of them if I've met them or not. We all have our fights and my hubby has said the same kind of stuff to me. Just please for you kids sake, don't fight in front of them. My whole life, my mom has fought with my dad and now my step dad in front of me and it's lead me to fight and fight and fight in front of my almost one year old son, I really have to work on that. You guys have been together long, maybe things will work out. Your not the only woman going through this!! Sometimes when my hubby and I are tired, thats what leads to our fighting, I bet what you guys fought about had to deal with sleep deprivation or alcohol. Don't worry hun, you have your beautiful children to make you happy even when your suuuuper mad at your husband haha!
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Hubbies should not say things like that no matter if there has been a few beers or not. Thats just his way to express himself without taking responsibility for his words because he was "drinking". Thats a poor excuse for disrespecting his wife. There are men out there who are not a**holes. Maybe you should find one. Best of luck to ya!
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I agree with Jadyns Mommy...his b*lls would have been ripped off by now. My husband is a good one(for the most part), but there are times he makes me wish I was a lesbian!!!
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