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kk... well.. I just had a baby boy a month ago... & i was a lil overwhelmed at first... & got over it... felt okay. Im single mother of three lil boy's... 3, 5 & a month old... & alone in a town where i barely know anyone... I have a friend here who helps me out n stuff... But I feel just awful... awfull... I feel like Im lettin my kids down cuz im a horrible mother... I holler all the time... Im aggressive... I dont wanna hug them... or kiss them... bath them... feed them... or even look at them... i could just about crack every wakin minute of every day... & i hate this... hateeeee it... I have never felt so down and out in all my life.. this is just horrible... did anyone ever feel this way or similar???
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Hi. Im so sorry you are going through this...My advice to you is to call a dr and get some help...wheteher it bea referral to a therapist or rx for meds......You only live once why Suffer????
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Thank you ! I know I need to talk to someone... its just I was told that here where I live at it's a long waitin list to be seen by a therapist... I mean seriously when U feel down n out... How do U wait... like honestly... oh well... Im hopin that i can see someone or get help... & before it's too late... Thank U Carla ;]
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Shauna, it sounds like you need a break. Can one of your friends babysit for you while you go out? Is there a single mom's club you can join so you can make friends? You are overwhelmed chica! And no wonder! you have your hands full. Just please don't do anything to hurt your boys or yourself. You can always try going to the dr and seeing if they can give you something for depression. But I think you should definitely look into a single mother's club where you can talk with other moms and share stories. That way they can give you advice and you make friends. I hope this helps!
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Thanks SingleMom... yeaa im goin to the doc next week... & im gonna talk to him & see what his input is... I know there's a single mother program... its just hard fer me to do anything cuz im in a town with no family. so i roll solo here.
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I'm glad you are trying to do something. Keep me updated!
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~SingleMom~
Well, hun... I been feelin a little bit better tha last few days & I went to see my doc... & I didnt mention nuttin because I figure it was just because of the stress I been under because of this baby's daddy & also post partum blues because I feel a whole lot better now. Im prayin that I stay that way... even though I feel down again today, just hopin that it isnt something that prolongs, I have such a hard time even openin up to my doctor about anything, im such an air tight sort of gurl... makes it hard sometimes but makes me strong all in the same breathe... I know i can handle alot... ive proven that to myself more than once :]
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Hi, Please hang in there . You said you can handle alot , so your a strong person right? I just had my 2nd 2 1/2 mths ago & there are times I dont want to deal w/ them or my b/f's 2! Your doing the right thing by seeing a doc! Just remember even if you cant stand being around your kids sometimes, how much you love them & they need you!!!!
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Oh ShaunaLeigh I can tell you are a very strong person. Much stronger than I would be in your situation. I'm SO glad to hear that you are feeling better. But I do want you to do your best to open up to your dr. if you start feeling down again. I want a post from you that says "I am an INCREDIBLY happy person" hehehe. Please keep me updated, my thoughts are with you.
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