For Those Of Us Against Using Birth Control
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I found there are a lot of posts on here with women in the same situation that I am and figured I'd start a thread for us. I just had a baby and don't want to take birth control at all. I am currently 9 weeks post partum and am waiting to see if I'm pregnant again now and although I would love and adore another baby it would be difficult to be pregnant this soon for a number of reasons. Any ideas??
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Hi Margie! I have nothing on this topic, but just wanted to say hi. I hope you are enjoying motherhood and your new babygirl!
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Hi! Yes, Im in love!!! She is getting cuter and more fun everyday. Motherhood really becomes your life once that little one is here and it is pure joy! How are you doing?
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Hi Margie! I am only 3 weeks postpartum so still recovering & have mast_tis. I am having a little trouble with b___stfeeding. it has been tough. i am just praying each day will get better to where i can truly enjoy motherhood. are you back at work or are you staying home?
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what about your dh pulling out? it may not be the most effective but better than trusting b___st feeding? I didn't menstruate while nursing so????? We didn't use anything but I was fine but now sure I'd take that route again this time he'll be the pull out king
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The only form of BC I have ever used is "pulling out" with hubby. We have 3 daughters. The only times he ever did ejaculate in me were the times I got pregnant! So I stick by this method so far. I can't take pills, they make me feel really yucky and depressed like I have PMS all the time.
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Hi Margie, how are you? I hope all is well with you and your family. Well, I am in the same situation right now therefore I really cannot give you any advice on this topic. I don't know if you've read my post t_tled "Hesitation about getting pregnant again" Well, we're still not using any BC and for this month we've been extremely bad if you know what I mean. My next period is around March 2nd so now I'm extremely anxious to see it come. Well, good luck to you and I'll be checking in soon. Blessings!
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Although I have my post partum birth control plan I wanted to say that if you want to use what is called the rhythm method you can download an ovulation calendar - it will tell you when you are ovulating and days to avoid s_x. Then you dh can pull out during those days and you "should" be fine after that - i got the calendar too little too late - I put in my period saw my ovulation date and knew instantly I was pregnant - it was something else - so if it worked in the reverse for me I am sure it will help you ladies avoid getting pg while b___st feeding - I am not expert on s_x and b___stfeeding so I can't remember if you can get pregnant while b___st feeding I just know I didn't have a period while nursing - hope this helps good luck - just google downloadable ovulation calendar - it might cost to download after a free trial but it might be worth it - or use condoms I guess. Good luck and congrats on your little ones!!
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may i suggest a book called "taking charge of your fertility". it talks about natural family planning and really goes in depth about how to chart and track your ovulation.
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I don't use the pill because of all the added health risks. I am 4 weeks pp and plan to use condoms and spermicide as birth control. I do not want to get pregnant for at least a year....maybe even a year and a half.
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Hi margie congrats o you baby girl well we use condoms since I do get af and lots such that I've realised my milk supply is low ever since I went to my uncle flow anyway I also got a baby girl on the 10th Dec. """"CUTE HEY"""
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Our dd will be 13 months monday,and we use condoms on fertile days and withdrawal the rest of the time.It's worked so far!
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thank you everyone for your suggestions and sharing what you use! i am 6 months pp and using natural methods, still not pregnant. :-) i am still wanting to wait at least another year--i think! who knows when the baby bug might bite me again though for sure
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hey ladies... my dh an i are using condoms my son is 3 months... and i havent had a period yet it should have been due the 10??!?!? im praying im not prego!!!
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If you haven't had a period yet how do you know when it is due? You can always take a test to be sure. Are you b___stfeeding? That can keep your period from comming for several months.
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