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Even though Im w/ my b/f & I know he loves me, I feel very alone alot. My baby is 3 mths & Im trying sooo hard to lose weight its my obbsesion! Ive lost 67 lbs so far but for the last 2 1/2 weeks I havent lost a lb! My body just seemed to stall, even though I still diet and exercise! I just feel soooo ugly ,worthless, & detached from others. Im so uncomfertable w/ myself that since the baby was born ALL I wear is black every day, except pjs. I can get through a day, work and all, but when Im alone w/ my bf I feel like there is a distance between us, Im pretty sure the feeling is not mutual. I love him sooooooo much, but sometimes feel safer & more in control when I keep my distance ie: not affectionate, just curtiouse. Sometimes I belive he cares about me but not in love w/ me. He got p___sed when i told him that. I just cant handle looking the way I do , w/ these xtra 30 lbs, does anyone feel this way?
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arynn- i'm so glad you posted this. you are definately not alone. i actually haven't visited this forum in a while (my dd is 3 mos also) but i'm feeling soooo alone i just needed someone to talk to. you're lucky because my dh told me that he's not attracted to me right now because of the extra weight i need to lose. now not only do i feel like a slave to my dd but i can't even made my husband happy. i just don't know what to do. i feel like he's ok living with me but that he's not in love with me. why does this have to happen AFTER the baby comes? anyhow, i'm struggling with the same issues. you're not alone!
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Iam soooooo mad, I cant belive he would say that to you! Does he remember you just had his beautiful baby!? he must look like Brad Pitt, right? To stand there & judge you like that , & you have a reason for those xtra lbs!!!! When you say your a slave to your dd, do you mean you do everything for him & your dh doent help? Remember it takes 2 to make that baby! Your not, "not making him happy" Im sure your trying. Hes not happy b/ c he is incosiderate & Shallow!!!!!!! This is one of the worst things to do to a some one who just had a baby!!!!!!!! Keep me posted , Im here if you wanna talk. Sorry if I seemed alittle harsh, but there is NO excuse for his behavior!!!! By the way around how old is your dh?
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I know just how you feel!!! I love my bf, but he gets angry eerytime I tell him I have a problem or I feel ugly and worthless... And he gets mad at me and says i b*tch all day and night and he hates coming home from work because i'm always depressed and angry.
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