Letting Off Steam-pg117830551855
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I just really need to vent, today my husband brought me lunch home (yeah it sounds nice but it's not really), my daughter started crying about the time he leaves so I feed her and then I sit down to eat, then my dog starts crying to go our so I get back up to let him out. I wrote my husband a text just joking saying it's really hard to eat wit a dog and a baby...he writes me back and says all you do is complain about having to take care of our daughter, I can't quit work to do it. Let me tell anyone reading this, my husband gets off work about 8 at night and we go to bed at 10...he never gets up in the night with our daughter and she is still asleep at 7 when he leaves. He spends about 2 hours out of a 24 hour period with her and he's going to talk to me that way. What would he do if he did quit to sit at home, not a thing cause he doesn't even know where her pajamas are. It's like he called me a bad mom and I have never said anything like that to him. I'm not saying he's a bad dad, he's not, he's just busy but my gosh I guess he thinks this house magically cleans itself and his clothes run downstairs and wash theirselves, and who could imagine, we must have a little elf that cooks his supper every night. ohhh ok I think I'm done I am just so mad, and hurt...I love our daughter and I love being home with her to take care of her. AHHH
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I really understand how you feel as I'm put in the same situation sometimes or a lot of the times. As soon as me and my partner start arguing he tells me how horrible mather I am, how I don't cook , clean wash and even when I do it I don't do it properly, I don't do anything prperly. We both work by the way but I always think I don't work as hard as him, he is constantly busy and works long hours sometimes. He makes me feel guilty and think it's all my fault so I end up believing it. I went trough anxiety, panic attack and depression and I blame him for most of my troubles. Whjen he is nice to me he is really nice, when he is bad he makes sure he says the most hurtful things to me so this is driving me mad.
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oh you poor thing...you sound like you have it worse than me...my husband is really not ever hurtful, he's been very stressed here lately so he's running thin...but I can prolly snap back so hurtful things myself ha. I told my husband when I go back to school and work I'm not cleaning this house alone. I figure we'll both be working, we can both be cleaning, I don't mess it up alone and I don't live here alone. You know what you should do for like a week, don't clean anything of his...wash your clothes and pick up your stuff and leave his laying there, then maybe he'l appreciate what you do. I did that the other day when I was so angry at him. I was washing clothes and took out every piece of clothing that was his, ha, he came home going I'm sorry I know you do a lot I was like yeah well you better get to washing those clothes of your, they ain't gonna wash themselves ha
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