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On Dec 27, I checked my cervical mucus and it was clear, stringy, stretchy, like egg white...meaning perfect time for conceiving. I then had s_x on Dec 28 unprotectively, but I don't know if he reached climax and ejaculated. I know it's only been a few days, but I want to know NOW. Anyone out there with any thoughts on this possibility of conception?!??
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If you had unprotected s_x then there is a posibility. The p___s excretes active sperm in small amounts of fluid prior to ejaculation (pre-c_m). This said, there is no way of putting your mind at rest either way until the time when you period is due...sorry. There are early detector kits but their reliability is greatly reduced and many pregnant women have had to wait until a week or so after their missed period to obtain a positive result. Hold tight, sorry, if you really want to have conceived, I would advise you not to a__sume and to keep on trying as regularly as possible during the middle of your cycle..if not, I hope it's not too late for you to plan better precautions in the future. Good Luck!!
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;-) Thanks for the advice. It's just a sure way to make a person go insane. However, I wouldn't be able to tell if this would be a pregnancy nightmare or pregnancy dream, lol. :-)
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Do you have long to wait? I guess either way the dice is cast and there's good and bad in it..my own littl'un (due june 1st) was not exactly planned and there are times when the past seems so much more desirable (back fitting in my size 4's !!) - but if I'm honest about why I took the risk in the first place, I wouldn't change that decision. Whatever the outcome, it will be for the best whatever the initial reaction! Try not to go insane, keep thinking of the positive sides of both cases - it looks like there could be disappointment ahead either way here... we'll still be here if you need some support...x
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Well, this cycle would be about a 25-26 day cycle since I know, for sure, I ovulated on the 28th of December (since ovulation occurs 14 days before the next menstrual). So I guess it's safe to say I should be expecting my menstrual by this upcoming Tuesday or Wednesday. The way I look at it is everything happens for a reason. I just hope that if I am, I can love this child as though I planned him or her. Understand? I don't want to fail in that sense. Optimism though is part of my personality. So either way I'm hoping for the best. Thanks for the support
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