Just Got The Dreaded News
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I just found out that I was pregnant last tuesday. It wasn't planned but we wanted it dearly. I started spotting and headed into the Dr. on friday. I was told the my HCG was 128, today at what was supposed to be a very happy Dr. visit ended sadly my HCG dropped to 81. I balled all the way home and in the arms of my fiance friday. Felt numb all weekend trying to be optimistic, then today happened. I am so emotionally confused. I am sad that I am no longer going to be a mommy in November. Yet relieved that things happened as soon as they did. I tried for 4 years to get pregnant with my ex husband, I know that his infertility was something that drove us apart. He had a vasectomy that was reversed and was unsuccessful. He wasn't open any any other options of us having children together. He had 2 from a previous marriage. I had none at the time. I was all for adoption or sperm bank use. He wasn't. I have a wonderful 2 yr. old with a man that wants nothing to do with fatherhood, Andy (my fiance) has managd to find the ability to fullfill the roll a hundred times over as Colten's father. He is great. Today just plainn sucks!!! He is a wonderful man, we were so happy that we were actually going to be parents to a child that was born to us. Then this happens. I know the lord works in mysterious ways, and all things happen for a well intended reason. But, of all things why this. I am lost, confused and an emotional wreck. I know we want to start trying ASAP, but how do I go about it w/o worrying myself to death. I am sure you can see by my ramblings that I am a mess at the moment.
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i understand i too lost my baby a couple weeks ago me and my husband had stopped trying b/c he was suppose to be losing his job well he didnt then i found out i was pregnant i was over joyed and stressed at the same time. it was hard but w/ time it gets better my prayers are with you.
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Thank you. I am better today, as long as I am busy. Andy had been so supportive I couldn't ask for any better of a man. These are the things in life that can make or break a relationship, and he has stayed strong. We have decided that we are going to start to try again in the near future.I wish you and your husband the best and hope that your dreams are fullfilled when the time is right.
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I understand what you are going through. I had a miscarriage in December. Talking to people that had gone through the same thing and keeping busy at work really helped me. My husband and I decided to try again as soon as possible. I am 7 weeks pregnant now. I had a moment of panic right before I found out I was pregnant. Were we doing the right thing? Was I ready? I have to deal with the worry every day. This pregnancy is different from the last so I'm constantly a___lyzing every thing I feel. I always have this worry in the back of my mind, but I'm still so thrilled to have tried again so soon. I don't regret it all. I hope everything works out for you.
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