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Hello. I just found out i had miscarriage after 11 wks. I had 3 scans done an they couldnt find the baby ,just some black bits. They ve askd me if i wanted to get DC or take some pills to fasten it but i said i was goin to wait it out ( hopin maybe if i come back the wk after an they do anoter scan the baby would be fine ) Well i got a phone call from the hospital today askin me to come back cuz my blood test came back bad an said its goin to be dangerous if i leave it. I dont know wat to do? i was really excited bout havin the baby. My boyfriend seems not to care at all. He never told his parent or any of his friends about me bein pregnant an when som1 askd him if it was true he denied it. He still didnt tell his parents about the miscarriage and it makes me think like he was ashamed of it? Wat to do? HELP:(
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I find myself on here after a week of my miscarriage because I too feel very lost and confused. I am not yet sure if I have to have a D & C or what not to help clean myself out. But I do think that you should have done whatever is necessary for your health. As far as the boyfriend and not acknowleding it much or what not...I feel I was in a very similar situation. In fact, my emotions over the miscarriage have pretty much torn us apart. I have learned men handle things much different. For them it seems maybe the pregnancy isn't real until they see that first ultrasound or hear the heartbeat for the first time. My advice to you is to communicate however necessary for you to understand each other during this difficult time. Because I hope that no one goes through the feeling of losing a baby and losing the love of your life at same time due to my inability to grieve properly. I wish you the best and I'm very sorry for your loss.
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