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Hi,
I was reading your post, and it hit home. My mother had a child (my little sister) when I was 16 and my brother was 15. I couldn't believe it! She was 36 at the time, and, like your family, i was selfish and didn't want her to have the kid. OH MY GOODNESS, our little sister is such a blessing. I'm 24 now, and she's 8. I couldn't imagine life without her. How cool was it for 4 people (my parents, me and my brother) helping raise a precious little gem. I have to tell you that they probably won't be happy when you are pregnant, but the minute the little one pops out--you are going to have a housefull to deal with the little one. And what a joy it was to have her around. She is a little princess and I honestly am so fortanuate my parents had her. Keep your head up, and your husband/kids will learn that this is a blessing. Best wishes.
PS--I'm 24 now and pregnant. My sister is totally excited and can't wait to be an aunt! Take care
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Hi Quigs, thanks for your message. I realise now that it doesnt matter what other people think - I know my immediate family and true friends will support me if I am lucky enough to fall again - espcially my 15 year old daughter who has been a tower of strength to me whilst going through the miscarriage. I just hope I can carry another baby and that I am well enough to get through the pregnancy. time is ticking away now so I cant wait to start trying again - and this time I will be thrilled. Good luck with your pregnancy
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Hi Lozzas, I guess I didn't read all the way down (how lazy of me). I am so sorry, I was writing to your original post. I'm so happy though that you found support on here and from your family. And by the sounds of it, your baby would've been brought up in a very loving home--a lot of babies aren't these days. And 40s is the new 30s anyway. :) You're in my thoughts, take care.
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Dear lozzas and family, My heart goes out to all of you, I'm sorry your going through this. I haven't been on the computer, I would have posted sooner. Please don't blame yourself for whatever negative thoughts you had, your human like the rest of us, and God knows that. I believe "Our God" is loving and full of compa__sion not punishment. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage so I can understand completely, the fleeting thoughts, "was it this, or that" . Sometimes things happen to us that's completely out of our control, and without fully understanding "why?" Remember, your baby was a thought, desire, in your heart and in your head too before you even conceived. Regardless if you were "joking" or "serious" . God blessed you and I truly believe He will again. Please don't give up, I know it's so easy to give in to negative thoughts and emotions. Be strong, hold onto your faith during this difficult time and remember "God always sends a rainbow after the storm". You have been in my thoughts from the first time I replied to you, I will continue to keep you in my thoughts & prayers. You all "deserve" to be blessed again! My thoughts will be with you on Friday, and I send you a "BIG HUG" !!! Glowmom
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