After Ovuolation

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Sann - April 24

Hi COL .. Hi again .. sorry for the typo errors, I'm not my usual self today. Hear from you soon.

 

COL - April 24

Hi Sann, First and before anything, don’t put your work e-mail address in here, it’s a public forum,it’s not safe. And usually I do not use my work e-mail for personal stuff. I have a Yahoo or Hotmail account. So no need to ask your IT, don’t use your work e-mail. : ) : ) . As for the baby stuff, I never did that before, it’s not for the jinx, it’s for the pain it might put me through every time I would see them. I am superst_tious myself; I would not blame your mother in law, for example, I do not tell anybody I know about late AF, or cramps when I have a feeling that I might be pregnant. Because I believe in keeping your plan secret until you accomplish them: ) : ) I know it might look stupid . I hope those cramps of yours are a good sign, you are at 10dpo? Right? I will keep you in my prayers. I wish I can be a good luck for you . I believe in those things too, I believe that some people when you meet them, they bring luck with them. Don’t laugh at me : ) . I feel much better today, I am preparing for my trip. I am so excited. Talk to you soon

 

Sann - April 25

Hi COL ... : ) : ) : )Glad to hear, you're feeling good today & excited about your vacation,very positive, remember .... "Made in Spain" : ) : ) You sound like my BOSS : ) I meant in a good way, he's really nice. How do I start (this is going be a long story) : ) .. he's actually my DH's boss to begin with. He knew that Dh & I are trying for a baby and I needed to quit my old job(totally stessful not ovulating, worked till 10pm on the average and Saturdays)and I quit, did helped with the "getting pregnant"part. MC last Aug, I needed to get things off my mind ... after 2 months' rest I started working again. DH's boss offered a job, base on a__signments/Contracts/Clients with staff support (I call it full-time/part-time, sounds funny isn't it), I can work from home or office(working from home today) Back to my boss, he's very conservative(almost paranoid) about security, so work email, personal email and laptops & desktops once it's on the net and "IT does a home visit every week or so", Dh & I, are being "tabbed" (not just us but anyone who wants excess from home to office, Bosses included), it's on the contract, we signed : ( Yes, totally no privacy at all, comes with the job, can't complain : ) I'm thankful, my boss is actually very understanding towards our circ_mstances. He caught me browsing this forum sometime back, he said it was a good idea, he'll get his wife to browse too. He's in his early 50's, second marriage, no kids yet (both marriages) and his wife(now, my girlfriend) in her mid 40s and they are TTC too. Sorry ..... : ( I still need the "go ahead", IT is working on it (in fact they've been on it for a while, they say, tech is always improving they are trying to find a way to give some privacy). My girlfriends and I, can hardly "talk" via email, most of the time....we meet up, I think, they'll be "tabbed" via my email or something (don't quite get the "tech stuff" how it works) Enough of that long story : ) still cranky & the cramps are still here today : ( : ( : ( It's about 8dpo according to the charts and my temp is up, 37.2 Celsius and trying to stay positive. Yes, to the "superst_tion thing", my mother-in-law believes in that too, she feels, some people bring one another luck especially your own kids. If I didn't MC last year, baby wouldn't be born by now and this year, being "Year of the Dog" (chinese zodiac), our "baby" will bring good luck to my DH : ) and my mother-in-law, she's born in the "Year of the Dragon", I'm her "lucky charm" : ) : ) : ) I'm not going tell her about my "cramps & crankiness"(hope she doen't feel it), she has been asking how I've been feeling and coming over to do all the cooking stuff, I don't want to disappoint her again (she great to me, "like a daughter she never had", she said) Dh & I agreed, not telling anyone till it shows(if it happens for us again), except you gals(forum) . What do you think, tell/don't tell? Jinx? How are you doing, Af gone .. 3/4cd for you? I don't mean to sound gross, but is your af "clotty"? Apparently, "clotty" is not a bad thing. Last visit to TCM clinic, my physcian was discussing about Af being "clotty", it's the uterus cleaning out old lining and blood, a process for a new cycle(fewer chances of spotting during pregnancy) but they'e still trying to gather statics(I forgot all about this since last Friday) By the way, how old are you? or did I missed it from your past posts? Post is getting long, Take care & God Bless. Talk to soon : ) : ) : )

 

COL - April 25

Hi Sann, you will be in my prayers, I hope I will bring you luck. Although I don’t think you need it, you are such a great person, and the faith you have in god is so big, so god will never put you down. I think you are lucky in away (you might think this strange) at least you have been pregnant, although it did not continue, but you know that you can be pregnant, and it’s a matter of time. For me , I am not sure if I can , I never been, although all of my medical check up came back good, and there is no known reason why I might not have kids, but still god work things his way. It’s nice to know that you have a good relation wit your mother in law; this is a great thing to have. I am born in the dragon year too. I am 41 years old now. As for your question, wither to tell your mother in law or not, I would say, don’t, she will be watching with you, and stressed too, that will add stress to you too. With regards to the clotty, my last period was clotty, I did not understand why, but then I remembered that I drank fenugreek, we use it to clean up ore system , and its good for women after they have labor, and when AF is not flowing well. It’s not recommended during pregnancy, it might cause MC. So I can relate the clotting to that. Another use for this herb it’s known as a good way to get red of the ovarian cysts. I am preparing myself for my trip, and for my surprise, I got cold, runny nose headache, fever and congestion, what luck, but I think will be fine by the time of my flight. Talk to you soon

 

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