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Hi Girls ... : ) How are you all .. doing : ) Dear Val - Just think of it as a "Resting Month" : ) taking a break from all the pressures of our "quest for a child "maybe a good thing for us and hope for better next month. Hope you had a nice time with your girlfriends : ) Thanks for your kind encouragement : ) Dh & I .. we discussed on this last night, we are going let this month go slow, it's just doesn't seem right ... with all the stress from work and the doctors' appointments, we're not really in "shape", if it happens .. it'll happen : ) Last time before it happened for us (after 5 months of treatment) we were in what I would call it a "state of hopelessness", was in May too. And we decided to quit trying "hard" and let it happen is it's going to happen for us. Then in July we got that so wanted BFP. We discussed this last night .. we decided to let May go "slow", if it's going to happen for us again, it will happen. Past months ... we been searching for answers to why our "little one" didn't get a chance to see this world that God has given us. So we feel, it's time for us to just let things be for a while ... "give time for questions to be answered" : ) I guess .. I haven't "healed", been so desperately ttc again. It's time to take a short break from this "quest" of ours. I think for those of us who have been ttc or suffered a lost so painful as such, we should let ourselves relax ... be less harsh on ourselves, all the treatments, the supplements, the bloodworks, the examinations, the chartings and the monitorings for our "fertile chance", it's just taking a toll on us. It's just making us more "desperate" than ever. Taking a break for just a while, to "charge our batteries" may just be the "thing" we need right now .... just some of my thoughts : ) : ) COL - Haven't heard from you. Let us all just chat and forget about "things", escape for just a while : ) Talk to you soon : ) Take care : ) & God Bless : ) : ) : )