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after my 3rd miscarriage this time last year I decided to try again until the summer and if nothing happened would leave it. I didn't become pregnant again and was okay with that. but for some reason now I have got really depressed with the fact that time has ran out and the option has been taken away. I am 44 (45 in July) and had been trying for over 10 years to get pregnant had 2 misscarriages then when I was 40 had came to terms with the fact that it wasn't going to happen only to get pregnant last year (wasn't trying ). the pregnancy last year opened everything up again . I have a son who now needs 24 care due to an accident a couple of years ago so my head tells me I wouldn't cope anyway but I am still finding it hard
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Alison, Im so sorry about your predicament.. and your son.
Follow your heart, and I hope you find peace.
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Hi there, I agree, follow your heart, don't depair or give up. I hope you find peace in your decision. hugs.
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thanks for your kind thoughts. my hearts says try , my head says don't !
when do you find the strength to say enough is enough.
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Hi Alison , if this will help. I am 42(43 in September) I have been trying for 20 years; I got pregnant in September last year, and lost it in October. Do I think it’s late? Absolutely not. I believe in one thing, if it’s meant to be, nothing going to stop it. If you feel you still want that just go for it, and you never know. My mom had me at 45, and as far as I know, I am normal : ), and by the way I was the only kid attached to her, she was my everything and my best friend, and now after 13 years of her death, I miss nothing in my life more than here.
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