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Thanks for the hugs maidencanada . (long name:o) It's hard to want to go back to the dr. and hear "at your age".. and know that there is a 50/50 chance it will end as a m/c. But the funny thing is, I had a dream and the dream had a diaper bag and fifty thousand dollars in it! Boy do we want that dream to be true. We both feel this baby will make it. I'm sorry you lost your baby at 9 weeks. I've never made it that far with the ones that m/c. It was always in the 6 or 7th week. You said your m/c happened 22 july. Are you still bleeding? I got pregnant again before I even had a period... I'll send lots of baby dust your way okay?

Hi Hanna. You got pregnant before yo ueven had a period? Oh I will hold that close to my heart as I want to get pregnant again as soon as possible. I have stopped bleeding, it has been about a week now, and though i will never forget this baby I do very much want to get on with it. I turn 41 in a couple of weeks and I so want enough time to be able to have two more children. My first 2 are 14 and almost 19. Your dream makes me think that you will hold onto this one too. It is a good sign that is not out of despiration but out of your bodies subconscious knowledge that everything is all right. I had dreams like that with my first two. With this baby that I just lost there was nothing like that. In fact, while my hubby wanted to go baby shopping and found a infant chair he loved etc, I was the one holding back saying no, not yet. He told everyone and I told almost nobody. I think it was that subconsiously I may have known there was something wrong? Does this make sense or am I just a wacked out fool?

Maidencanada, My heart feels with you, During my last miscarriage (3 days before my wedding) I had a v____al ultrasound in the er. The beat was very slow, and then stopped. The tech's eyes suddenly got watery and I knew then that my baby had died . I dont remember much after that as I had to be sedated, but I dream of it often. How sick was I of hearing that nothing could be done, my age,etc.? I decided to find another Dr. I went yesterday and already I am renewed with hope for this pregnancy.(I'm 3 weeks.) he prescribed baby aspirin and progesterone suppositories, which my other dr. never told me about. Time will tell if it works, but at least now someone is at least trying other options. I too am married to a younger man-I am 44 he is 38. This is his first marriage, I would really like to give him the ultimate gift too. Do not lose heart! every pregnancy is different. I have lost 6 but I am still trying.....This may be the one for me! baby dust to all............

Oh Janet my heart goes out to you on the loss of your 6 babies, and I congratulate you on this pregnancy. Your courage and determination as well as your fertility heehee give many of us hope. Everything for a reason right? At least I hope so. I don't think I like the "it just happens" way of thinking. Perhaps m/c makes us appreciate what we have and makes us a better parent. We always appreciate that which we work hardest for. You are in my prayers and I think I will give my share of the baby dust to you for good luck. I will take a helping later when it is my turn again. :)