POSSIBLE PREGNANT AND 40

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TRISH - March 13

MY KIDS ARE 1/2 GROWN AND I DON'T WANT ANY MORE CHILDREN.I WAS FIXED AFTER MY SON 7 YEARS AGO AND IT CAME UNDONE ON ONE SIDE.NOW I'M 40 AND MY NEW HUSBAND AND I DON'T WANT ANY MORE CHILDREN.

 

MNMOM - March 14

Have you actually confirmed you are pregnant?? If you are, the idea might grow on the 2 of you and you might find this a blessing. If that doesn't happen, can you at least consider adoption so that another loving couple can have the chance to raise a beautiful child?

 

Kecia - March 14

Well I'm sure as an adult you are well aware of your options but let's consider a best case scenario. Wouldn't it be wonderful to see the product of you and your husband's commitment and love. I mean an unplanned pregnancy is not the worst thing that can possibly happen, believe me, I know and have known 3 times. I was married before and have 3 sons 16, 14, & 12. I remarried 5 years ago and my husband and I have both flipped flopped surrounding the idea of having a child, however we have just decided to do so this January. And after being a little selfish concerning my body, time, career goals etc. I have actually become quite excited. Now I'm a little scared because of my over 35 status. But any way this experience may be wonderful for your older children also. You may find support where you never thought you'd find it. Life has a way of giving us unexpected gifts that we didn't know we wanted. But before you freak out, make sure you're pregnant . And remember if you are, and all else fails, adoption is a very realistic option. Babies are sought after nation wide.

 

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