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i am 40 yrs old and pretty sure i am pregnant,i havent tested yet because im only 1 week late on my af,this will be my 5th baby if i am,and my first with my fiance,who didnt want children of his own he loves kids,but just doesnt want any of his own,is there anyone out there who is with someone who didnt want kids?
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Hi .. Lynn I am 41 and married for 3 1/2 yrs.and I am now almost 3 months. My husband and I have been fighting all the time. He wants children. and I do not. Dont get me wrong I love children, But I do not want them. and it is driving a huge damper on our marriage. and before this we both said if we have children GREAT, and if not thatc is ok too. but all of the sudden my husband changed. so if it helps any. I have done alot of research on line saying that in order for it to work , both people have to agree. so good luck with everything
Debi
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Im 42 and 29wks w/my second child.
I had my first at 38yo....so Im a late bloomer.
All I can say is that i LOVE being a mom more than I ever could imagine...and its almost impossible to really imagine until you do it. So let nature take its course, you have many more months for both you and your partner to acclimate to the whole thing.
Good Luck!
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Lexus... I'm a bit confused. You said that before you got pregnant, you and your husband said if you had kids, "great", if not, that was okay too. So... now that you are pregnant, shouldn't it be "great"? I agree with you. Both people should agree so if you said it would be "great" but you really didn't want children, maybe you weren't being totally honest with him. Maybe you should have said you didn't want children period. Because, from your description, it sounds like you are the one who has changed and not him.
Anyway... I wish you both the best of luck and I hope you are able to resolve this because like it or not, a baby is on the way. It sounds like your husband is happy about it and for your sake, and your baby's, I hope you can find a way to be happy about it too.
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How old are your fiance ? and your children. Some men get scared and its normal. Imagine yourself with your fiance and him having 4 kids and you any. 4 Kids are a hand full. Im sure if he loves you he will be happy about the baby. My mom had me at 36 and my brother at 42. We were very healthy babys. You will be ok, God will help you through this.
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