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hi, I turned 40 in March and am pregnant. I was pregnant for the first time when I was 24 but at 14 weeks I miscarried. I became pregnant the 2nd time at 37 with my beautiful son with no complications whatsoever, even tho my age was constantly brought up. (I was 38 when I had him) I am now pregnant again and up until this weekend was trying to just enjoy the pregnancy. This past friday I started spotting and when it didnt stop after a couple of days went in for an ultra sound this morning. The u/s shows a sac but they could not see a baby. the dr. told me not to write off the pregnancy yet which is exactly what I was doing. she said it may be too early and even tho I know the exact day of conception, the dates could be off since Im supposed to be just at 7 weeks. She also told me not to worry about the spotting, as long as its only "spotting". I have to go in next week for another u/s, but as much as I am hopeful, I am still scared. I fear its a blighted ovum which could be a result of my age. Even if I dont miscarry I still worry that the baby will be healthy. I wish you all the best and even tho Im having complications, I know many women who have had healthy children over the age of 35 and even in their 40's.

Hi- I'm 38, will be 39 on the 24th of June. I am 13 weeks pregnant and a basket case with worry. Just had my NT scan yesterday and all appears well, I just did not know how common miscarriages are and am constantly worried since reading all the ladies stories on these boards. I wish you all well in your pregnancies. Ramcam- good luck at your scan, maybe you just ovulated late and are not quite as far along as you have calculated? Colleen

I am 37 and just found out that I am pregnant. I am a bit worried about all that can go wrong, but I am basically in good health. My first doctor's appointment is in 2 weeks and I'm worried that I should be taking some kind of vitamin now. I don't want to wait 2 weeks before I get something. Anyone thinks it'll be okay to buy some over the counter prenatal vits?

hi, I just turned 36 last month. I have a 14 month old after having 3 recurrent early mc's in 2005 and 2006. I'm currently 5 weeks along with a u/s schedueld for next week. I'm quite nervous because of my past history. Kas, YES go and get some prenatals. You need those nutrients right now. Mine were over the counter (Stuart brand). They are 30 bucks but worth it. Good luck to everyone!!!

hi ladies. thank you for the responses :) ram...hang in there as it is early. no matter how we know ourselves, our badies have been known to do odd things and perhaps you really are off about your conception dates. i have read this same story on this site and the results have come out positively. please keep us posted. clindholm, stesseing about miscarriage is bad for you and the baby...you should be celebrating pa__sing the 12 week mark as the rate of miscarriage goes down sinificantly after the 12th week. yay! you have hit a milestone. remember the power of positive thinking. Kas... you can by over the counter prenatal vitamins at most drugstores. alos, get folic acid and take that daily as well. it is very important to the development of the spinal colum, brain etc ( helps prevent against neural tube defects. congrats! yay kristine! babydust!!!! and no worrying when there is no reason to! hugs

Thanks girls I'll go out and get some today

I am 37 and 4 1/2 weeks pregnant with my first child. My fiance' and I have been together 8 years. We were recently discussing planning a wedding. I told my fiance' I did not want to plan a wedding and then wait another year to try to start having a family. I have read and been told about how difficult it is to get pregnant over 35. So thinking it would take me anywhere from 6 months to a year we started trying. Well we got pregnant the first month!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so excited, but also share the same fears about miscarriage. I have always lead a healthy lifestyle with diet and exercise. I feel that is why I had no problem getting pregnant. I am praying that this pregnancy is just as healthy as a 21 year old!!!!! I had mostly all the pregnancy symptoms (except nausea) before I took my test....Now I really do not have very many symptoms.....I am very concerned and praying everyday that this pregnancy comes to life. I return back to the doctor in 3 weeks to make sure there is a heartbeat.

I'm 39 , 8 weeks into my first pregnancy. We have a 13 year old daughter whom we adopted. She's our pride and joy!! This pregnancy was a surprise blessing!

Oh and Clindholm, we share the same birthday! I'll be 39 on the 24th of June also!!

Hey Seashelle, that's pretty cool about our birthday's. We were looking onto adoption when we got pg the first time and would still love too as there are so many sweet kids that need a loving home, that is so wonderful that you have adopted and conceived as well! Congrats on your pregnancy!!!

Thanks Clindholm. Adopting our daughter was the best decision we have ever made. It was very rewarding for all of us and very emotional too I might add. She is anxiously awaiting the arrival of her bother/sister in january. I thought that she would be embarra__sed around her frineds but she happily told everyone! Always surprising us! I understand your anxiety about being pregnant! I'm a basket case also! Good luck with your pregnancy.

Hi, I'm 44 and I just found out I'm pregnant...I was pregnant for the first time when I was 28. I am 6 weeks pregnant and single. I have a 50 year old boyfriend who expressed that he does not want any more kids...I'm scared to tell him.

Congratulations to all of you over 35 pregnant mommas!!! I'm 39 years old and 30 weeks pregnant with my 2nd boy also. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage 3 years ago. The following year (2006) I had my precious little 19 month old boy. I'm looking forward to having another boy. Even though I'm sure they will both keep me on my toes. I'm a little apprehensive about the pregnancy though because I got preeclampia and HELLP syndrome with my last pregnancy and also had severe itchy skin during my last month. My last pregnancy seemed smooth and during the last month all hell broke loose. Hoping for a better one this time. I also had the NT scan and the odds for down syndrome did not sound great for me but I'm praying and keeping my faith that all will be perfect with the pregnancy and with the baby too!

When is everone's due date?? if you know your due date, let us know. Mine is August 27th.

Hi girls- plynn- that's terrible that you're afraid to tell him. It's not your fault, after all it takes 2! I really hope he handles it ok and is happy. When do you plan on telling him? Perl- congrats, your almost there! Wow that sounds like your last pg was a rough one. They say the chances of the preeclampsia is only 3-5% more if you have had it in the past. I'm not due til 12/10, just 14 weeks along and a nervous wreck. What did they say at the NT? They can be wrong and it only tells you the odds, not conclusively. I had my NT last week and luckily it went well. Nice to meet you all. Colleen

My due date is Feb 10th 2009