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I just read a wonderful post on another site from a 40 year old woman who went through much what you did. Her man and her decided to have a child and she even went through a tubal reversal. Finally after years, she becamse pregnant and he decided he made a mistake and wanted her to terminate. She decided no way. She packed up herself, her child from a previous marriage and went it alone. She is now due and so very happy. She is happy to have this child and raise it alone and do all the wonderful things she can to love and nurture this baby that she thought was born out of love. And her ex? Well, he is the one regretting it. Not her. You can do anything you set your mind to. Never let someone make your decisions for you. Perhaps it was a blessing that you learned now what a immature man he was instead of when the baby knew and loved him which would make it harder to seperate them.
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Hi, many thanks for all your messages, they help. i have seen counsellor and been advised to take another week to consider what i want to do, she has said much the same that it needs to be the right choice for me and not for any relationship or another person. its hard to be so let down by the person you thought you would spend the rest of your life with, but as you all say better to find out now whilst i still have a choice. i will let you know what and when i decide. again many thanks for your support and kind words.x
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