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Hi girls- Krissy- sorry to hear about af, that's the pits when it's really heavy like that. Hello to everyone else, how is everyone? It's very quiet here today. Colleen

hello girls...sorry to be mia for a few days.....hope everyone is well....Mothers day was Ok missed my mom and my baby boy.......so on to something else....before that topic gets the tears flowing....I have so internet cheapies opk's so I decided to test on the 10th neg ...11 th neg ( started then because cycle messed up from surgery I guess) I wasnt going to again for a few days BUT last night at work CM was different (remember this is my first time doing all of this so I am soooooo new at it) so I tested last night at 11:30 and there was a line there......so baby dancing we did go !!!!!! sorry anyway then again this am at 11:30 same line showed up and I reread the papers that came with the test and it says the test line should be equal to or darker than the control line.......but mine wasnt it was a little lighter so what does this mean????? and since the first anme basis now ...Punkin....Shana (((((((HUGS)))))))))

Hello ladies~ Krissy sorry the af came with such a roar...or at all... I suppose one could look at it like okay...deep breath and stop stressing for a bit and try again? Still its disappointing Im sure. Have you been on clomid long? Im not sure Im even popping out eggs these days...so I thought about that idea. Not sure I could get a doc to go for it, though. Everything has been pretty irregular the past few months. ~~~~ Colleen OMG that would freak me out totally...pregnant or not!! ticks are so gross!! But Im sure everything will be good!! The whole bd thing is iffy...by the time ds is in bed and asleep dh is also getting tired from the 5am mornings and things arent always in working order...yaknow? But then if Im not popping out eggs, I guess it is a moot point :( The monitor is easy enough to USE, but I havent gotten a positive LH surge yet...so I dont even know if I HAVE one!! My last cycle was like 42 days...usually theyve been 30. The monitor has indicated "high fertility" for the past 6 days....so I dunno...I havent a clue whats going on. :( Punkin I tried the clearblue opk's and every time I tested with them...all 7 times...there was a 2nd line and only one time was it about the same darkness and the rest it was slightly lighter too...so I didnt know what that meant either...that doesnt help, I know, but it was a similar experience. Take care! Julie

Hi girls- Shana(punkin) sorry Mother's day is sad for you :( Regarding the opk's, it seems that since the line is lighter than the control, you may be close to getting your surge. Probably within the next few days, good luck with the bd'ing! Don't give the cm too much merit, I never detected ewcm which is what they say indicates fertility and I got a bfp. I think it's b/c I'm older and it may not be shall we say, quite so abundant anymore. Julie (pooter) lol, I know what you mean about the bd'ing. By the time my lo goes to sleep, dh and I are both ready to snooze. We both do the 5:00 thing too. We haven't had any alone time in a couple of weeks! Our anniversary is this weekend, so we'll get my SIL to watch our lo so we can have some quality time. If you'r emonitor is detecting "high fertility" that sounds promising. I'd try to work in a quickie if you can. Also if the opk's are showing as dark, it may be darker today showing that you will o in 24-36 hours. Krissy and Bunny- miss you guys, hope everything is ok with you. Talk to you later. Colleen

hey ladies.....well not sure what the "lighter" line means so we are bd'ing anyway hubby is so cute about it after we did on may 12 he asked if round 2 was the next night and I said yes so last night as we crawled in bed he (done the sound effects of a bell .... ding ding..... like a boxing match) and said round 2???? then all day today he has said he is looking forward to round 3......it is soooooo cute!!!! I tested again last night before we did it to see the darkness/lightness of the line and it was darker but not equal to the control so I tested again this morning and it seemed the line was even lighter than what it was on the 12th so I am confused!!!!! but the bd is fun.......sorry I havent posted to each one of you personally but just in a hurry almost time to go home from work take care and talk to you soon Shana

Hi girls- does anyone come in here anymore?

Hi Colleen ---- I do; just had very bad marital issues lately. Dh & I are going to try for this jacuzzi (except we'll just do 1 day, instead of 2) thing again. We're hoping to get back some of the romance, pre-babies. Miss u all --- pray for us. Bunny

Bunny- I'm so sorry!!! I will pray for you and hope you are able to get back to where you want to be. Miss you guys. Colleen

I'm here girls. I went to the dr yesterday and she thinks that more then likely I m/c I have an apt with my gyn on my june 3 my 40th birhday so we shall see what he has to say. On the other hand my van got towed and they put a 30 day hold and they want me to pay 1500 I don't think so. I am trying to find me another vehicle. 3_babies_at_41 - I hope you and dh can make up I will say a prayer for you. Enjoy the jacuzzi!!! clindholm - I'm here I am just going through so much right about now that I am stressed and depress. I will be okay. punkin01 - I would say get busy. Krissy68

Krissy, seems like we are all down on our luck right now. I know it sounds cliche, but try not to be so stressed, or depressed. Krissy, I feel so bad for you, and I will send a prayer up for you also. Is anyone needing the group hug thing right now, besides me? Much love & hugs, Bunny

hello ladies....Yes I indeed need a group hug right now....I am just stressed about drama and c___p going on at work......I work at a police dept and we are having more duties put on us daily...like I work in dispatch and we now have to notify gas and water personel after hours and weekends of water leaks and gas leaks and such.....like I need more to do .....we work 1 dispatcher per 8 hr shift (should be 2 but whatever we screwed up showing that we CAN do it with 1 so why pay 2) again anyway we have 3 full time m-f and should have 3 part time for s-s well we had 2 parttimers quit the same week so now the full time is filling in on the weekends......I am getting screwed royally.....I have to work sat and sun when my hubby is off I get friday off yippie he works on friday .....but the other 2 full time ...one gets saturday and one gets sunday.......GRRRRRR...so what ever I will do what I have to do.....last night the partimer came in and I asked her what time she wanted me to come in tomorrow (meaning today) she said (let me expain more last weekend on Mothers Day that I had to work she told me "next weekend I will be able to work over for you on Sunday since it is a 12 hr shift if you want me to" .....I was so happy and I told her yes I would be glad to get the help...so that is why I asked her what time she wanted me to come in she said well I have worked all week and I am tired....well boo-hoo I didnt choose to have a full time job and let my and my hubbys spending get us into finicial bind and have to work a full time as well as a part time job that is HER choice not mine!!!!!!! and she is the one that said it last weekend!!!!! she offered it to me......anyway then I told her she needed to let our supervisor know what she can work next weekend (memorial day weekend) she pops off in a smart a__s tone "I am part time and since I am the only one you have you all have to work around me.".......so I am so sick of this place right now I want to leave a note that this is what I am willling to work on the weekend (like sunday this time to this time) and that is all and if they dont like it oh well ...sorry for the venting guys but it goes deeper that this .....this stuff is just the current happenings......I took another opk and it was neg yesterday so I guess during the faint lines I "o" ...I hope it worked and the 2ww is going to be hell on top of the hell at work......(((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))) all around ...hope everyone is OK Shana

I am 42 soon to be 43 this year. I just experienced a miscarriage with no known reason. I am very healthy and also believe that God has control of what happens. We have 3 beautiful healthy babies and I started at 34. I think that if you're healthy you'll be fine.

ps sorry I said hcg...I meant the blood levels count

Hi Gilrs- I am so sorry we're all down in the dumps lately. Bunny- I really hope your hubby problems are getting better. Krissy- That really sucks about your van, $1500, omg! I'd say keep it too! I hope you are feeling better, I know that can't be an easy thing to get over. Hopefully the doc will give you some good/encouraging news at your appt. Punkin- that's all you need is work stress. I think the parttimer is supposed to be there for when the fulltimers can't work, right? who does she think she is? That's bs that she thinks you all have to work around her. I hope you get some time with your hubby this weekend and the holiday off. That's a tough job b/c you never close and always need coverage. Snycks- welcome and nice to meet you! Good luck in your ttc'ing. What are you using to chart your cycles, bbt, opk's? It's great that you changed doc's, I think you really need to like/be comfortable with your ob/gyn. I can't believe they left a msg like that on your machine! I had an abnormal pap awhile ago and she did the laser surgery and so far so good. They told me it indicates "precancerous" rather than actual Cancer. Very sorry to hear of your mc, that's so sad. Let's get that group hug going girls!My update- I have another scan on Thursday, so please say a prayer for me. Colleen

Good morning out there :) How goes things? Just had a moment before heading out to work & was thinking about Krissy...how are you doing? Punkin we have a society that is so work and productivity oriented sometimes its out of control :( Sorry to hear its stressful... nobody needs that! Colleen I sc___pped this month...trying to figure out whats going on anyway. DH was out of town for a conference and I work out of town 2 days/week....so it'll be the end of THIS week before we can get down to it PLUS...I ran out of test strips for the monitor...I think because things are so goofy and my gut feeling is that I may not be ovulating :( Im seriously considering acupuncture to see if that will help regulate me! Ill be crossing everything that can be crossed & prayers too for you Thursday! Bunny I hope things are getting back to a good place for you and dh!! Snycks hello & welcome. Sorry for the sadness and jacka__s dr....I hope youve found a better...human one this round? Yikes...Im late...sheesh I wish I could be saying that about my af!!! ha. Take care everyone! Julie

Hi ladies here is an update on me. I am currently cd 10 and I didn't take clomid this month except for the one day I decided to give my body a rest. I am still taking the prenat vit and baby asprin. I started taking robintussin today but am I taking it too early. I also started the opk test strip I got them off the internet and it was neg. I have yet to start to bd so I guess I need to get busy. How is everybody doing. 3_babies_at_41 - I'm doing okay how about yourself. Thank you for the hug. Punkin01 - You can vent to us anytime you need or want to we are here for you. As far as your part-time coworker she needs a reality check. I am keeping my fingers cross and saying a prayer for you that your 2ww goes fast and you post that you got a BFP when is AF suppose to show herself? Snycks - Hi and welcome to the group. I am sorry for your miscarriage. I'm glad you found a new doctor your old one was such a jerk. I agree we can have healthy babies after the age of 40. Don't worry the 2 months will fly by and you can start ttcing. Keep us posted. clindholm - I'm doing better thanks for asking. I'm trying to find me another van I'm not paying no 1,500 plus a car note don't think so. I am going to hit the auctions and see what I can come up with I will keep you posted on that. Of course we will keep you in our prayers but your scan is going to be great and you will get to see the baby stay positive and I can't wait to hear your update. Pootersmum - Thank you for thinking about me before you headed out to work. Was you late? I'm doing okay how about yourself. Krissy68