Thinking About Having Another Little One Part 2
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Here is the new one. I just thought the original t_tle was so perfect! New thread, new bfp's!
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Colleen, thankyou for starting a new thread, & thankyou also for the compliment RE: the original thread t_tle; you are such a sweetheart! Maybe this new thread will bring some babies in our bellies --right ladies?? BD, here we come!!
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Hi Ladies...Congrats on part 2! Lots of Babydust to you all. I am on cd27..waiting for af or not ;). Not here yet...hmmm. last cycle my af came at cd24 it was early. I usually have 28 day cycles. How are you girls doing? How have you been 3 babies at 41? Do you think you will ttc again? I think you should go for it! and to everyone else all the best!!!!
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Hey guys. Thanks for all the encouragement you gave me and its so great to have people that understand the journey and the grief and reward it can bring. Clindholm...I ususally had 28 day cycles so didn't have to monitor. I haven't had a cycle yet since my m/c but it should be pretty soon. 3babies have you had your cycle yet? Pootersmum...thanks for the words..I switched from them to an all womens clinic and they're awesome. Krissy68...buy a car on ebay especially from TX because although used, they have to have them inspected every year just to keep tags. Also guys I was very acidic and started paying attention to my ph levels. It can prevent you from getting pregnant and having healthy sperm attach to the uterine wall. You can get test sticks at the health food store.
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hello ladies...I dont check in for a couple of days and there have been soooooo many posts I dont know where to start..... Krissy wow they want to charge way to much for you car in impound....goodluck on finding another one. what is the robintussin for ??? ......colleen Your scan will be fine....but you know you will be in our thoughts and prayers anyway....snycks...welcome ...your name makes me want a snickers...is it too soon for cravings?????? glad you found a better Dr I have a male Dr but he is heaven sent I met him 14 years ago when a froind had a m/c and after she was admitted and he found out 100% she did m/c he came in and talked to her and her hubby and they cried and he sat there on the bed and cried and prayed with them it was so touching and several months went by and it was time for my yearly and when my Dr called I ignored the call and called this Dr and I have been seeing him ever since......He is awsome......He delivered my DD and my DS Joshua both times he sang Happy Birthday to them during the C-section....it is so special when he does this ......so all men docs are not b___ts...... he also stopped seeing patients and came to see me in his personal office the day after Joshua died...I felt like I was loosing it and we were close to his office and I made hubby pull in so I could see him the front desk girl took me to his office all I told her was something bad happened and I needed to see the doc he came in and sat down beside me not across the desk he grabbed me and gave me a hug then asked what happened and I told him HE CRIED WITH ME for about 30 mins and I asked him to give me something to "help" me through the next few weeks and he did......the day of the funeral we came home to a plant (peace lilly I think) that stood about 4 feet tall from him and his office staff came to the funeral home and called several times to check on us....the whole office is AWSOME ........kristin glad to see ur back with us and doing OK.......3 bbies How R u?????pootersmum acupuncture ?? ouch!!!!! my hubby wants to try it tooo but I am not to sure.......well I am trying to figure out when I can test because this is driving me nuts!!!!!!!! I have never been patient about these things i could test 3 times a day LOL.....is there anyone waiting with me?? seems like there is but I cant remember?? (((((((HUGS)))))))))) to all Shana.....if I left anyone out I am so sorry
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Hi ladies- Kristen, wow only 24 day cycle? That's short. Although I was ranging from 25-28 so I guess it's not too different. Must be our age. snycks- The ph level is supposed to be very important for general health as well, I have read some studies that claim that you cannot get Cancer unless you are very acidic. Punkin- wow your doc really sounds wonderful, you are very lucky to have him. When is af due for you? You are almost done with the 2ww, right? Bunny- will you resume ttc next cycle or are you up in the air about it? Where's Krissy? Anyway, tomorrow is my scan, wish me luck and prayers! Colleen
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Hello! I don't post on this site as much as I should. I usually enter to read infant section to see how the other babies are doing and ease my worries to whether my lo is meeting milestones. She will turn 1 on 6/15. It is so hard to believe. I turned 36 on 5/7. I want to have another because I don't want her to be alone. I thought about trying in July/August. It's scary because I went through BAD postpartum depression and I know day care will be so expensive w/ 2. I don't want that to discourage me or DH. It's pretty exciting to think about having another. I feel that I would be able to cope much better this time around too.
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Hi Michelle and welcome! Doesn't the time fly with the lo's? I sure didn't think so during the all too frequent 2 hour all night feedings! My dd is now 17 months and I will be 39 next month. I am 11 weeks pg- I wasn't really ready yet, but the tick tick tick of the clock had us start. Well I think that is a great time to start trying again. The depression must have been terrible, how long did it last? I think every pg is different, so you may not even get it the next time around. Did you have to take any meds for it? Colleen
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Hi all, **Kristin, how are you? To answer your (and Colleen's) question, yes, I'm already working on ttc again (smile). Well, actually --- although it may not be time for me right now, dh & I are just taking little bd steps. :-) I don't feel like looking it up on the internet, so can you get pregnant right after a m/c, or does the cycle have to come first? **Snycks, I haven't resumed my cycle either. I actually thought it was coming right before dh & I went to the hotel (that woulda been a bummer), because I felt slightly crampy --- but it never did. Oh well, I'm in no rush; having a cycle will just remind me of what was once there ---- and now isn't. Whatever. **Colleen, we'll all be waiting to hear some news on the scan; try not to be nervous. I'll say a prayer for you. Welcome **Michelleodell (I like that ---- it's got a ring to it!) --- glad to see you on board. Yes, it is pretty exciting to think about having another little one. You're still young; you & dh should go for the ttc thing. Don't worry so much about your child meeting milestones ---- my 3 yr old (4 in exactly a week!) has autistic behaviors & is delayed in various areas, but he has talents & abilities that you wouldn't believe! Never underestimate a child, regardless of how a situation presents itself. Yes, daycare can be expensive, but try paying it for 3 (4, if I am blessed enough to conceive again)! Thank God we are able to get a__sistance with daycare, through the state; you should look into this also. Yes Michelleodell, give your daughter another sibling, it will keep her from getting TOO spoiled, and she'll love you for it later!! You'll be alright. Take care everyone, I gotta bounce! The babies will be home soon! Love to you all, Bunny
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I just wanted to say hey to everybody, I went and got all my stuff out of the van and didn't look back but I did do something that I shouldn't have oh well it was mines and I couldn't take it. I had got the kids a dvd installed so they wouldn't let me takeit so I broke the monitor and the dvd player the lady was like are you having some problems and I told her nope I'm just fine. Talk to you all tomorrow. Krissy68
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**Krissy ---- LOL. YOU GO GIRL! I got my smile for the day. :-) Love & hugs, Bunny
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Krissy You go Girl!!!!!.... colleen I should start AF on the 30th or the 1st so I am about 1/2 way there...I keep wanting to test ...knowing deep down it is to early...kinda makes me feel like a dog wanting to hike my leg and pee on everything ...sad I know......Hope everyone is good talk to yall later ....and welcome michelle!!
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Hi Ladies, Possible bfp for me. Got a very faint line last night. I was 11 dpo's yesterday and cd 28. Still no af today at cd29. Feeling a little odd. I will go get a blood test to confirm my results because the line was VERY faint. I used first response brand. Hope everyone else is well. For the record I am 40 and have been ttc for 4 cycles. I will update when I get things confirmed. Baby Dust!!
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Hello All! Thanks Bunny and Colleen! I am on Zoloft 50mg for depression. I get nervous thinking about going off. My doctor said I could stay on the med while pg and a woman I work w/ did, but it makes me worry a little. I am also on iron because mine dropped to 7 and it should be between 15 and 55. I feel great now and will probably be able to stop taking iron after my app in June. I think this time around will be different. I know a little about what to expect now. I sooo know people mean when they say there is no way to explain childbirth!!! hee hee!! I also had never cared for a baby before and now I feel a little more confident. I just know Ca__sidy would love having a sibling. She LOVES other kids! I agree w/ not having her be the only child and being spoiled... I think mommy has already spoiled her in some respects. I work out of the home so when she wants me to pick her up, I do. No matter what I am doing. I feel like I miss so much I want to hold as much as I can because people are always telling me eventually she won't want to be held. I waited so long for this and I think I appreciate this moment more because of that.
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ok..possibly a false alarm. Went to a clinic where they do urine tests on the spot. It cam up negative. They also did a blood test to make sure. I will get my results on Monday so for no BFN.
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Kristen- how many dpo are you? Your af is a little erratic, right?
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3_babies_at_41 - I'm glad I made you smile. I know I was. How are you doing today
Punkin01 - I'm glad I did what I did I got to let out some stress and not hurt anyone. How are you doing today? Tell Auntie to mind her own d__n business but I am glad dh check mate her.
Kristin72 - When is AF suppose to show up. I am still keeping my fingers cross for you and I can't wait for the update. Hang in there.
Well girls I'm off to poas I got a faint positive yesterday so today should be darker I order some off the internet and according to their direction if the test line is light then it is negative but dh wasn't home last night anyway and I am fighting a cold but you all know I would have gave it up. Let me tell you all something my dh is so silly he called me not too long ago and ask me was I in the mood to make babies. I just started blushing I didn't know what to say. Well I will post in a few my daughter is getting ready to pick me up to go and get something to eat. Krissy68
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