Husband Has Left Me Need Support
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Im 5 months pregnant and yesterday my husband left me, Found out that he has been texting other women through a dating website on another phone which i didn't know about, I feel like my world has fallen apart, and to make matters worse ive been smoking again which i know is wrong been really good since i found out that i was pregnant, I rang one of the numbers which i found on his bill that he texted last month 154 times this woman didn't have a clue that he was married and his wife was pregnant he was using a different name she cant believe what a liar he his saying that he was single, I just cant believe it i didn't sleep at all last nite, please dont have a go about the smoking i feel really bad i will stop as soon as i finish this packet i just dont know what to do. Please helpx
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oh i am so sorry. I have to say and i am not saying it to be cruel, but you and the baby would be better off without someone like that. It will all work out and i bet you find someone that will treat you so much better and will love that baby. I know you love him and it hurts, but the hurt will go away and will def. be replaced by hope and love when that baby comes. Good luck hon!
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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I went through a really bad breakup about 9 years ago. My ex husband and I had just had a baby and he left me for a woman (I should say young girl) that was 10 years younger than him. He had been seeing her and lieing to me. My son was 7 mo when our marriage fell apart and I felt that my world was ending. But, it was the best thing that ever happened to me and I found a much better man that takes care of my son and me. And now we are expecting a child together in Aug. My ex is still married to that woman and still up to his cheating. Look to your friends and family for support and stay strong. You will get through this. Every day is a new day and you need to make the best of it. Take care of yourself. Good Luck!
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Ok here's a happy story so you know there's hope! I left my daughter's father (she's almost 4 now) just a few weeks after I found out I was pregnant. He'd seemed like prince charming at the time but was a complete dog. I was angry and left him a nasty message, felt bad about it later, so I called back to see if I could delete the voicemail from his cell phone and heard messages from three other women. So that was that. I started dating my husband when I was 5 months pregnant with her, we'd gone to high school together and were always bumping into each other. We were never extremely close or flirty but somehow something just clicked. My daughter's father really isn't in her life (he's still a dog like forevermissed and has been married and divorced twice in the past 3 years for cheating) but she had my husband there to be her dad. He's been there since before she was even born and we're expecting our first child together in May. Sometimes bad things have a funny way of working out into something better.
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sam76 its true what these ladies are saying. i am also a firm believer of the phrase 'everything happens for a reason', unfortuantely when it does happen its usually the worst possible time but when you look back in years to come you learn from it and you move on and realise how much better your life is. you really deserve better than that selfish nasty man, he will end up with a whore who probably cheats on him as much as he cheats on her, hence he will never be happy. you on the other hand should try and look at this as a lesson in life that you don't need this guy and he isnt worthy of you or your unborn baby. let him have his sad lonely life and see you in the future, happy, with a beautiful baby and no doubt a much better, loving man. do not under any circ_mstances take this guy back, all he will do is waste another few years out of your life and then put you through the same thing over and over again. just remember you and your baby deserve better.
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