Husband Is Stuck On Stupid Anyone Else

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llukenjess - March 14

Happy to be mommy....OMG if i do not do something for mine then he wont do something for me...he has to act like a child and say no if you dont do it i wont do it...mean while his lazy a__s sits at home and sleeps all day while i wake up at 5:45 in the morning to go to work for 10 hours. PLUS the two hours driving time. This morning when i was getting up i was soo tired and i said under my breathe "work i hate you!" (i didn't get to sleep last night until two in the morning because he and his mother were so loud that i couldnt sleep for jack! then when he comes into bed he wants to have s_x...i'm like HELLOO i have been trying to sleep you could have come nad gave me some loving a little earlier dont you think...rather than at 2 in the morning when HE wants to do it!! ) so anyway this morning after i said that under my breathe he sits up and says with a HUGE att_tude if you dont like your job then why dont you quit!! I looked at him and said...are you serious!?? If i quit my job we would be underwater cuz your lazy a__s didn't get a job until the other day! (which he starts today) then he had to nerve to say "why are you always starting fights with me?! LOL i just left....i couldnt take it! when it's his turn to work i don't want to hear him complain! LOL he's not going through throwing up...back pain, b___st tenderness...thanks for listening!

 

cors1wfe - March 14

Ladies - I wanted offer a glimmer of hope we had a fantastic night last night - he was sweet and nice and it all started with kinds words and affection. I didnt' even have to do it to him for him to be nice - he was nice all on his own. I did however give him a ma__sage and tickle scratch his back a bit - he was so thankful - in turn he was sweet - when he is relaxed is when I bring up what has been going on. I said you know babe - I have been feeling a little unappreciated and taken for granted- I work every day like you do and I don't care that I don't do physical labor - my labor is this life inside of me - and I would really like it if you could be sweeter to me instead of b__wing up and taking your stress out on me - he apologized and said he was really going to help out more and try to be sweet. so just set the mood right and they will see the light! sometimes!

 

llukenjess - March 14

Oh that's nice!! there is HOPE!!! yesssss!!! LOL they're not all that bad like we make them out to be after all! hehehe

 

happytobemommy - March 16

Oh I am glad to know that your husband is understanding. I guess that was what was so frustrating is that my DH normaly is very sweet and caring to me but some days I swear he can act just like a big baby. Although two days ago I had very very bad day at work that I called him crying and he was very awesome and just loved me and let me cry it out and he helped me feel a lot better. So Like you ladies were saying there is hope for our men.LOL.

 

llukenjess - March 18

Update...my guy has gotten better these past couple of days, and i woke up the other night with a horrible headache and we don't have tylenol in the house cuz i don't like to take anything...but the headache was SOO horrible, and he got up at one in the morning and got me some tylenol! :-)

 

Saird - March 24

OMG look at how long this threat is getting!! How funny. I thought I was the only one going nuts! I realize it is partly me and he's probably annoyed that I'm not getting things done that are usually done, but honestly, I"m just trying not to throw up every morning!!! Honestly!! And don't worry dear, I'll get dinner when I get home from work even though you've been home all freaking day. Seriously.

 

kolleen_caudillo - March 24

HEE HEE HEE!!! thats funny saird. but what i ahve to remember is that im full of hormones now and they seem to do all the talking. lol!!!! my dh just sits there and looks at me half the time. my family told him on thanksgiving that if he can make it thru my pregnancy that he could make it thru anything!!!! gee thanks people. am i really that bad??? agian its the hormones not me.... lol

 

joey - March 25

lol...you girls are funny...

 

firstXmommy26 - April 15

Im laughing so hard at reading all this im crying!! My husband is the same way!!! the driving, the back scratching!! yes mine complained too when i said no!! and lately he accuses me of "being p__sy" HELLO IM PREGNANT!! i have a right to get upset at stuff!!! well my husband actually gets "sympathy symptoms" like the nausea, headaches, backaches and such that we get being pregnant, and when hes puckin in the front yard or whinin about a headache..i take a minute to myself and grin from ear to ear..take that!!

 

llukenjess - April 17

LOL it seems as though everytime my back hurts or i have a headache...magically SO DOES HE!! so if i ask him to get me some tylenol hes like aww bubt babe i have a headache too...lol wow!

 

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