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********* I need help******** Girls i have had all i can take. My stress level is through the roof. Theres just too much to talk about and i am on the verge of tears. UHHHHHH my preggo friend says I will get days like this... Plus i am a worrier... Have any of you had any wine since you have been pregnant? i am normallt a beer gal but i need a drink and idk anything about wine... Any help?

what's wrong??? I had a gla__s of wine at like 3 months, then had diarreah all night so I thought that a bad sign and I won't do it again. but I have friends that drank wine while pregnant and their babies are fine. patti, I don't have the line yet, or any stretch marks (knocking on wood!!) I had another piece of tomato pie today for lunch, call me hooked!! patti, if you ever make it out here, I'll tell you where to go get this pizza and maybe I'll meet you there too!!

oh and patti, I really don't know any affordable hotels as there are very few in manhattan. but you have to stay in manhattan. when you narrow down your hotel options let me know and I'll tell you which one to stay at based on the neighborhood/location.

What's the matter pumpkin? I really wouldn't advise having a gla__s of wine right now. Is there any way you could get a ma__sage scheduled right quick? That might be better. I think that there is something about the point in pregnancy we are at right now, because I feel like crying over EVERYTHING! If you need to get any specific feelings out, feel free. Otherwise, my advice is just lock yourself in the bathroom so you can gather your thoughts, cry if you need to get it out of your system, maybe go get an ice cream, take a little walk around the block, take several deep breaths. Maybe wake Mason up and let his little wiggles divert your attention. Try that over the wine. :-)

oh just a lil of everything... work is stressful, everything with the law suit, plus the people who are leasing to own our home are behind on there rent, getting ready fro mason, just sh&t like that... I guess just life stuff...lol. I wasn't really sure i could go through with the wine thing... i just feel like i would freak out till he is born thinking something could be wrong... i am going to try and go for a walk tonight... Lord am i ready to be a mom???? I guess he wouldn't give me more than i can handle...

Sweetheart, I know how you feel to have such a full plate and so much stuff to sort through and emotions to endure. I can't imagine, though, a lot of the stuff you are going through, but I can definitely sympathize. Stop your worries over being a good mom or even a mom period. I SWEAR once Mason is here, the thought will never cross your mind again. It's just a shame that we can't all go out as a group towards the end of August and celebrate the births of our babies, if ya know what I mean (and if you don't I mean getting riproaring drunk, smoking cigs and being cra__s)

I know what you mean about the stressful days! That is what happened with me today... hence the post about my job changing the pay schedule and everything having to do with money and my ability to take off for maternity leave! UGH!!! I had a meltdown with my mom and she said, "stop stressing about things you cannot change, it's not good for your health or your babys. She also said that in the long run things always end of working out (she is right on that) so me getting myself all worked up over this is doing me no good! I love my mother and the fact she can basically say KNOCK it OFF and pull yourself together! And I know she loves me when she is saying it! I still had a good cry session! :( Have a beer if you feel like it or wine! Like my doc says, you may think you want it, but by the time you actually get the courage, have a sip and realize its not all its cracked up to be... a sip or gla__s isn't going to ruin the progress of your pregnancy! I love my doc by the way. I have had a beer here or there... usually never finish it, but that first sip is like HEAVEN! Sorry if you all disagree on this, but opinions are welcome right!?! If you decide to indulge... enjoy every second of it! I agree ekay... waiting for the day to go out and get "riproaring drunk"... oh the good old days! Whew... this post made me feel a lot better. Let us know if you need anything... hope it gets better!

And now I'm gonna put my two cents in.......My back hurts like hell and I miss my husband!!! :_( Not like he ever did it too often, but now I really have no one to rub my back. I have to get used to sleeping without him, I have to bend over the bathtub to bath my girls by myself, I don't have anyone to talk to or snuggle on the recliner with after I put the kids to bed, I'M SO SAD!!!! I have to keep telling myself this is a good thing and it will get us out of our financial hole. It is taking EVERYTHING I have not to break down here at work. And it's only the first day.......

Hey girls! I had the afternoon off, sorry I missed ya all! Ekay - oh I know how you are feeling. Believe me when I say that it really does help to just have good cry about it and allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself for just a little bit. The first few days are always the hardest, but it will ge better. I promise. Keep yourself busy with the kiddos and go for a walk, get an icecream whatever it takes to not think about it. I am thinking about you. I know all too well how hard it feels to deal with all of this, especially when our preggers emotions are so high right now. Momma - Hang in there too. What is your favorite thing to do? GO and do it if you can. And you too - have a good cry and freak out - it may make you feel better.Gabby - we are having so much trouble trying to get Yankees tickets. Any suggestions where else other than ticketmaster that we could get some? I will let you know when we narrow down a hotel - but yes we really want to stay in manhattan. And I would love to have you come meet me and introduce me to a Tomato Pie!!

Hey I just got my home comp up and running yay! ok sb try STUBHUB dot com for tickets it is ppl who have tickets but cant go and sell them good luck i know we have gotten many of our Mets and nets tickets from there no problem... ekay i am glad your hubby got he job that is great i cant imagine how hard it is to be alone that long but when the bills are paid and you are not struggling as much you will see the benefits out way the sad lonely nights

hey! good morning!!! i am excited, my niece should be here today. she was put in last night, and she was 3 cm. i called my Mother in law and she said that she was given something to make her contract but it was too much last night so they took her off, and put her back on a lower dose today, shes 70% effaced and 4 cm, she just got her epidural. i can't wait. my husbands brother, just got home from korea, so he gets to see her born, but has to leave in a few weeks to go back and his wife and jayden will be coming over in august. he'll miss her first real smiles... but at least he gets to see her birth! i am so excited, i wonder what color hair she'll have, cuz casey is a redhead like me and johnny is brown haired like my husband. my firstborn has red! i think its funny cuz my husbands family is all from tn, and both him and his brother married redheads from ky! lol. just thought that was cute. :)

yes its their first, it was kinda like how me and my husband met, lol. we knew each other for like 2 months when i found out i was pregnant, so did they! but they got married right off, me and jamey broke up my entire first pregnancy. he wouldn't work! so i came home to ky and stayed with my momma, lol. and my ex for a bit, but that didn't work out. but jamey didn't see christian til he was 3 weeks old. then we got married AFTER i had my 2nd baby! but this is their first and they are excited and so am i! i love babies!!!! hey does anyone know anything about the IUD mirena? i was thinking about getting that so my husband doesn't have to get snipped, lol.

patti, try craigslist too. that's where we sell out giants tickets when no one can go. danielle, I work in a health clinic and our docs are always pushing the IUD's, but do some research b/c I've also heard A LOT of women get pregnant on them. anyway, good morning ladies!!! it's almost friday :) these weeks are flyyyyyyyyying by! 25 weeks for me on sunday! it finally feels like a countdown now :)

Morning.... Well i am trying to de-stress myself. i ordered a supreme pizza from pizza hut and my mom sat and talked... I am just so darn scared...lol. but hopefully this weekend i can get alot of info at the fair and not worry so much. I guess my biggest fear is having a c section.... i just dont think i could be awake and be cut open...lol. hopefully i will be back to my normal self though in a few days....lol

Morning my big bellied friends!!! :) How is everyone this morning? Thanks for the ideas on where to get tickets. I will check both of those sites. I think we have narrowed it down to going there on June 2 and coming back June 6th. We want to try and catch the Toronto game! Cnas - very exciting day for you! Keep us posted! Ekay - how did last night go? I was thinking of you all night. I am sure that he will do fine there and once he gets to know a couple of the guys he will be in there like a dirty shirt. I know for sure that work liek this, the crews don't tend to let anyone sit off to the sidelines. They all want to know each other as well as possible, given they all have a hand in each other coming off that rig safely. They get to be a pretty close group. As long as he is willing to be the new guy for bit, he will be just fine. I am here anytime you need a b___h session about how much you hate his job and being alone and all of that! Kitkat - good to hear from you!! Glad you got your soputer up and running!! Mommam - how are you today?? Feeling any better at all?

Yes the weeks are flying by!! I can't believe that we are working on our seventh month already!! Getting so excited to meet this little monkey in there!! Only a few more weeks till we hit the Third Tri!! Mommam- glad to hear. You are going to be the very best momma to Mason that he could ever ask for. I have no doubt in my mind. The fact that you are worried and scared is so normal I think. I asked my SIL about her c-section and she said they had a big division thing set up just at her chest, and she couldn't see a thing. She said she was terrified about being awake, but didn't feel a thing and all of a sudden there was her son being pa__sed to her around the tarp thing. She said it wasn't bad at all. Just try and thing of the wonderful outcome that we are going ot get at the end of whatever kind of birth we each have! I would love to have a August mommies get together after the babes are all here!! How fun would that be!! I can't imagine not talking to you guys everyday afterwards!!