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Cnasmom, SB200 is right. That is your sciatic nerve and will probably only worsen as baby Chloe gets bigger. Wow, we have two little Chloes with KitKats. Cute. Anywho, my husband had been pretty good about being attentive and stuff, but all of a sudden he's like off in his own little world. And I hate it because he blames every emotion I have on being pregnant. Nice try.
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oh and kitkat, i love chloe, lol, i wanted to name our first little girl that, but we named her after my husbands uncle that pa__sed away, his middle name was adrian, so we named her adrianna, so now we are naming this little girl Chloe Joyce, Joyce after my granny, because she has lung cancer and probably won't be around to see her after she's born. but I think Chloe Lin is pretty too!
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Oops sorry!! Yes - I meant that in response for Kitkat's post!!Thanks Ekay! I had that this morning - the bladder flicking. On my way to work. Haven't felt that before, not too fond of it though!! I think these little ones like to keep us guessing!!Mommam - headaches...nothing worse. I hope it lets off soon. You got your crib!! Which one did you guys decide on?? Have you set it up yet?? Lol! I would have as soon as I got home!! :) Ekay - No shooter??
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yeah, ekay, i hear ya on the husband thing. mines been a total jacka__s all weekend! the bad thing is, i have been trying to be more patient and when he smarts off and stuff, i just keep my mouth shut and leave the room, normally i would be a bit-- and yell and rant back with him, and it would be a hellacious arguement but i've been really good, he even admitted i've been good, so whats his problem??? i hate men, lol
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Oh my gosh Cnasmom! Me too!!!! I have been so freaking proud of myself because I haven't b___hed one bit about anything. And trust me, there is so much I could b___h about. I let him hang out with his friends after work, hell, I even suggest he go get a beer with a friend if I know he's had a stressful day, but no I am the bad guy because one time he asked to hang out with his friends and I had had a super bad day and I said yes with the slightest reluctance. And it's all of a sudden I give him a hard time about everything. He's just been acting weird lately. And I could let my mind wander, but I am chosing not to. That's why we didn't go to Shooter Jennings. He like changed his mind at the last minute so we went out with some friends instead. No big deal, but then he invites them over after we go out and I'm a little upset because I wanted to just spend some time with just me and him. I sometimes feel like me and him hanging out isn't enough-like we always have to be with friends or whatever. In any case the night turned into a knockdown dragout because it's like he was itching to fight. And all this happened in front of our friends mind you. Surprised the police didn't get called, that's how bad it was. It's hard to explain in writing, but it sucks to feel like you are trying so hard to make someone happy, or at least alleviate any possible conflict and it turns out that he still feels like I am b___hing all the time. And like I said, the list goes on forever on things I could be b___hing about, but I am trying to choose my battles. We probably just need to go back to couseling.
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oh man, i feel your pain! i am danielle by the way. but my husband is just a jerk! I used to be the one that worked full time, he couldn't hold a job. i did that for 2 1/2 years. He didn't clean or give baths to the kids or nothing. Now he works full time, and I go to school, take care of kids, clean the house, and make sure he has supper on the table every night! but i never got none of that when i worked, i did all the other stuff too! but he calls me lazy and and all kinds of other names! it makes me sooooo mad. I get so tired of being the only one trying in this relationship, i shouldn't be the only one trying to make our retationship work! his mom said he's selfish! haha, his own mom, she said the more i do for him the more he expects, its the truth too.
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do you have a myspace ekay? mines daniellenflowers it has pics of my other two babies and my b___thead husband that i do love for some reason lol.
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Kitkat I looked at ur reg and I like the crib set you picked. If anyone wants to look at mine its Alicia Minchey TN. CNASMOM - A bunch of us have myspaces. Mine is ridin23s or Momma Minchey.
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Nice to meet you Danielle! I do have a myspace, it's /barjw. I'll try and track you down. My husband doesn't call me names, bless your heart, and he for d__n sure knows better than to call me lazy. I try to be understanding because even though he works long hours and does the hard labor, we essentially make the same amount of money, so it's kinda a ego shot to him. I know he's tired after laying tile all day and stuff, so I don't make a big deal about doing the housework. My biggest gripe right now is dammit I want to be doted on! He likes to throw himself a pity party now and again for some unknown reason and I think we are in the 'now" part. It just seems like a week or two ago, he was like super sweet- making dinner, going out on a whim to try to find me a body pillow, cuddly, etc. and recently we're just kinda roommates. Like seriously yesterday I felt like I was barely even in the house to him. He literally either sat in his recliner or played video games all day. And when we were lying in bed watching a movie he was like totally not affectionate. Usually he'll hold me or at least put an arm around me but last night it was like side by side brother and sister style. I keep trying to talk to him nonconfrontationally and say is there anything he needs to talk about or is there anything going on. There is a SMALL part of me that thinks I am slightly over reacting, but there is a noticeable change in his demeanor. He better straighten up or I WILL start b___hing about everything!
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Yikes gals - dont you just feel like slapping the c___p out of them sometimes??hee hee!!! :) Mine usually is pretty good - mind you it is hard not to be when we dont see each other for months on end. But don't get me wrong, when he is home we do have our all outs too. Cnasmom - my space is /softbreeze200. Do you guys have the Phil & Teds stroller down there?? I think I have decided on that one and will buy the Graco snugride to go on it. Anyone else decide on strollers?
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Lol Ekay - Open up a can of Whoopa__s on him!! They think we are b___hy now (when we are trying to hold back and not cause any confrontations!!) You wanna see b___hy....... ;) !!! They think they have it so bad at times. Toobad we can't trade spaces with them for a day or two and let them seee how we feel on a daily basis and just how much we actually do around the house. Especially you momma's that already have other children to chase around.
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Holy Cow Cnasmom!!! Look at your preggo belly! Mine pales in comparison!
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yeah, i get big, but i have big babies! my lil boy was 3 wks early and 7 lbs 11.5 oz and my little girl was 8 lbs 9.5 oz. and at my ultrasound at 19 wks chloe was already about 13 oz! i am really tall too but i have no upper body, all legs!!! so only grow out when prego, lol
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SB200, I know this will pa__s, it normally does. But it's frustrating at the moment. It must be his 'time of the month'! I feel bad bashing him because he USUALLY is a pretty d__n good husband. We'll just call what we're going through a severe lapse in judgement.
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I have big babies too, but lordy! My biggest was my last one and she weighed 8lbs 14oz. My husband is 6ft5in, so all of mine have been 21 1/2-21 3/4 inches long. Creedence weighed 13 oz. at my 20 week u/s. The tech never said anything about that being big, but Gabby's tech did, so I'll take her word for it.
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yeah, my tech said she was big, lol, i am 5'10 and my husband is 6'2 so we have pretty tall kiddos too. but i really think alot of mine is being so short waisted. :( i look alot bigger than i should. i have on every pregnancy. oh well, thats just my luck, lol.
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