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Thank you Millie that was very comforting.

Thaks Stephaine, that really does help a lot. Im glad to talk to someone that has been bleeding too, Im bleeding on and off since my 11th week but justin the last two weeks are so it has gotten so heavy. Every internet site I looked at only talked about bleeding b4 the 12th week and after the 20th, so nothing had been helping me until my mam came across this site. This is my first pregnancy and everything is new and very scary... Thankfully the bleeding hasnt been as bad today so fingers crossed it will ease up!

Hello how is everyone doing?,,,,,Well me not so good IM SCARED, I have had spotting off and on since 9 weeks and today it got a little but more not enough for a pad or anything mostly when I wipe , when I woke this morning it was red and by 3 hours later it was brown and clear again....I have tried for 3 years for this baby and I am soooo scared,,,,Congrats Millie!!!!!!!.....OH yeah I also have had light cramping today. When you guys were spotting did you cramp at all?????????Thanks for your help --Trisha

Im now 14 weeks BTW... : )

Trisha, My whole pregnancy seems like one big cramp.. I have cramping when I bleed and when I dont bleed the doctors say watch out for menstral like cramping and if I did that I would be on the docs phone 24/7. I would sugest to take it easy and enjoy. I find myself each week saying I cant wait until I am 24 week or 26 weeks and then 28 weeks. well now I am 28 weeks and I think 32 would be great. Try to enjoy this child will only grow in side for a short amount of time and then after they are born its like they turn 11 two days later, My oldest just turned 11 and I feel like I had her yesterday. J

I am very scared I have not had this b4 It is red and seems for now to only be when I wipe TMI i know sorry....my doc just said rest awhile, well easy for him to say I have 3 kids and a handicap hubby its kinda hard for me. The stress alone is enough to drive someone crazy I hate this waiting c___p

Trisha the stress could be causing the bleeding. One day I was so stressed I felt like my top was going to b__w and that night I started bleeding again. Find time to relax and let things slide around the house there will be plenty of time for all your work later. Maybe it is time to ask the kids to help you or a neighbor or family, It will be worth it. J

Trish, Jenny is right. The more you stress (and I know it is hard not to do) it does seem the worse the bleeding gets. When I had my bleeding I did have some cramping but my sister (who has had two miscarriages) says the cramping w/ miscarriage is actually worse than menstrual cramps. So try to take it easy and stay off your feet as much as possible with no heavy lifting especially. You might want to rent a fetal doppler if that would alleviate your worrying about the baby until you can feel the baby moving. My worrying completely went away when I could feel my little boy moving constantly at 18wks. By the way have you had an ultrasound yet? I had one at 15wks and that helped my worrying a lot too. Well God bless and try to think positive...it will make a world of difference.

Thank you all for your wishes. I look forward to hearing good news from all of you one day. I know it feels like never ending ordeal right now. But these days will be over soon and you all have your little miracles with you. You all are in my prayers.Don't forget to upadate...

I am very very very scared I have been spotting for 4 days not I wear a pad but there had not been anything on it...it seems to only be when I wipe, And I think my cervix is open ,,,,doc said not much can he do but relax but I just cant help it.....someone please give me some advise

I am 15 weeks I forgot to say that

Grace, However hard it is, try to relax. Stress will cause you to spot/bleed more. The doc is right, there is not much that can be done but taking it easy may help. Do not exert yourself at all, both mentally and physically. No pelvic activity either. a lot of women are dealing with similar situation. So do keep hope. (Whatever happens will be in the best interest of the baby.)You already are in the second trimester. They say in threat of miscarriage goes down by 50% after the first trimester! And after 20 weeks it's really safe. So just hold on for another 5 weeks. Keep mentioning your concerns to your OB often. Do what he suggests. Everything will be fine... Good Luck.

Well I pa__sed my 28 week checkup!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yeah I pa__sed my Glocose test and it looks like I am doing okay. My cervix is closed. I was concerned about the sharp v____al pains I spoke about a while ago and they could make your cervix open but mine is closed thank God. I have to travel this weekend and I am a little concerned though wish me well and take care everyone. J

Congrats Jenny!!!!!! I hope your trip goes well..take it easy.....I have been bleeding the darkest red I have ever seen for almost a week now light cramps I am now 15 weeks!!!

I am 15 weeks also and have the same thing Its very dark red but now really a brown either I am scared

Wow Jenny you are 28 weeks already.. real happy for you. I'm crossing my fingers and looking forward to my 28 weeks and to the delivery of a healthy baby eventually. Stay happy and healthy everyone.. and keep praying for the little ones..