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oh yeah my dh is getting to me too. mainly his driving. YOUR CARRY PRESIOUS CARGO HERE!!!!! he drives like a freaking manic. it makes me so mad. here he comes!!!

lol - dude if he could only not speak - I think it would be better for me ...LMAO. last trimester I didn't want him to breathe so I guess it's getting better...LOL

yeah totally. when i want him to comfort me he seems to be doing the opposite. when i dont want him too he trys. i love this one. between him snoring nad taking up the bed, and the baby kicking and moving all night I CANT SLEEP!!! OMG when she comes im screwed. lol

Kolleen...OMG my fiance drive like an ASSS hole and EVERYtime we are in the car we fight!! i'm like dude SLOWW doowwn!! he's like don't worry i can drive stop telling me how to drive! Meanwhile my sister just got into a car ACCIDENT someone hit HER not like she was driving baad...theyy're accidents not always going to be our faults and i try to explain that to him, and he still drives like a jerk! grrrr!!

omg, I nearly cried I laughed so hard...llukenjess, I swear we have the same significant other!!! I swear I almost told mine the other day that I would no longer ride in the car with him. period. That is the only time we fight -- in the car. I started crying once and told him that his continueing to drive like a moron meant he obviously didn't give a s%$# about his unborn child. That really p__sed him off, lol. The truly think they are good drivers and when I always mention the "other drivers" we have to watch for he acts like I'm neurotic! He said "I never get in accidents" and I told him that's what everyone says until they get in one dumba__s.....lol. I think he's gotten better as I've gotten bigger though because now it seems more real because he can SEE it (are we married to cavemen?)

LMAO!!! Wow ladies that is some of the best stuff I have read. I am laughing my head off at work right now!!:) My hd is away working most of the time and I b___h about all the stuff that he isn't here to do, but maybe I should consider myself lucky that I don't have to deal with that stuff, because I would go off the deep end!! Literally!!lol!! Thanks for sucha good giggle this morning!! I hope you all have good days today!! :) :)

So wait has anyone's dh/fiance/boyfriend become more needy since you've been preggo? I swear every single night my fiance asks me to scratch his back, and not for like 2 minutes he wants a 15 minute back scratch. I'm like WTF I'm the one who's 28 weeks pregnant and I'm the one who should be asking for a backrub or a backscratch. Then he actually has the b___s to get an att_tude if I say no. I swear I love him to death and he's been wonderful through this entire pregnancy but it's the little things that really p__s me off.

Stefkay...LOL i swear it's crazy! i said the same thing I was like "fer real if you continue to drive like thing i do not want to be in the car with you!" (of course he got mad) and then i was like seriously everytime we get in the car i say something to you about your driving and you DO NOT listen!! that shows me you dont give a SH!$ hes like i do so much for you how can u say i dont care blah blah...i'm like cuz be considerate that there is THREE of us in the car no not just two. I cant wait til my belly gets bigger cuz maybe it willl sink in! LOL Gabby, i swear they HAVE gotten more needy!! My guy is constantly asking me to give him a back ma__sage...LOL i'm like hello!! my back is in more pain than you hunny! hhow bout giving ME a back rub! I'll give him a back rub for like a good 1/2 hr and i went to ma__sage therapy school so i give a decent ma__sage. then when its my turn i get one for 5 mins and he's trying to watch TV and do it at the same time...when something funny comes on or something serious..it's like he has ADD and stops..i'm like helloooo....please continue! LOLOLOL but i love him and he is good to me. I dont have to do ANY laundry anymore! He takes care of it all! And i know i can def be mean sometimes out of no where and he deals very well with it...if i think about it he's probs going through as much stress as i am! Besides his SUCKY driving we get along very well for the most part!

lol. too funny. I can't say i have anything to complain about except the driving. Especially when he drives so close behind people it p__ses me off. he almost rearended someone for that but does that make him stop doing it, noooo. He help with everything so i guess i can consider myself lucky.

Ladies - this all is too good! LMAO! I just put it this way - men & women are COMPLETELY different. They need LOTS of attention, and when they don't get it they act like children. My boyfriend (god love him) will always point out even the smallest scratch on his hand, or make a point to tell me how rough his day was. - Okay that's all fine & dandy but come on, if I talked about every little thing that is happening with my body every day - we would have to quit our jobs and stay home! LOL. I think we should all definitely see that we are not alone - many other women suffer thru the same exact things!! =0)

Heather...my dbf is the saaammee way!! sucha hypercondriac! if his nose is a little stuffy OMG it's HELL! lol a little scratch and it's misery! men are such babies!

ok so im really sick and it doesn't phase my husband. but last week when he ws sick it was like the end of the world. but he thinks im jsut fine. im coughing so bad that it is giving me b/h contractions. his famous saying is this "you'll be alright" AHHHHH god i hate it when he says that. last night we were talking and i was tellin ghim im kinda scared about the labor and delivery. he said, "well your body is built to do this" watermelon thru a pea. no sorry my body is not built to do this.LOL!!! men you gotta love them.

Kolleen I think you man and mine are soulmates...LOL jerks!

oh i can totally believe that. he is on his way right now to pick me up from school. he has to take me to the drs office now so lets see how he does with having to sit there withthe whole time. urgent care clinics can be a long voring wait. he has been at work all day. so we will see.

Here is an example of what I am talking about. I am a certified nursing a__sistant. I have a very stressful and physical job. Anyway, I come home from work the other night and instead of my DH asking how my day was I sit there and listen for 15 min. while he describes his day. He comes over and puts his head on my leg and I yelp out in pain. I have really bad back pain. He asks if I am ok and I say no get off. I then roll over and try to get up to only have more pain. He doesn't even offer to help me up. I then move to the couch after taking a pain pill. (Don't worry it is prescribed.) I get done telling DH that I am so tired and in so much pain I can't make myself something to eat. That doesn't matter to him because his next comment is that sucks but could you do me a favor and make me lunch for tomorrow when you get a chance. I told him no. I just said I need to sit and relax and if I was going to make something to eat it was going to be for me. A little later the dog needed to go outside and I asked him he would take her. Oh instead of being a caring and wonderful husband that he normally is he has the nerve to tell me no because I wouldn't make him lunch. I then go let the dog out. It sucks because there is two flights of stairs to go down. I then go right into out room and let him have it. Needless to say he apologized but I couldn't believe him. Well I am glad for pregnancy hormones because I am speaking up for myself more then I ever did before and I think he might be catching on. LOL. Sorry for such a long rant but it is nice to know I am not alone.

Happy to be mommy....OMG if i do not do something for mine then he wont do something for me...he has to act like a child and say no if you dont do it i wont do it...mean while his lazy a__s sits at home and sleeps all day while i wake up at 5:45 in the morning to go to work for 10 hours. PLUS the two hours driving time. This morning when i was getting up i was soo tired and i said under my breathe "work i hate you!" (i didn't get to sleep last night until two in the morning because he and his mother were so loud that i couldnt sleep for jack! then when he comes into bed he wants to have s_x...i'm like HELLOO i have been trying to sleep you could have come nad gave me some loving a little earlier dont you think...rather than at 2 in the morning when HE wants to do it!! ) so anyway this morning after i said that under my breathe he sits up and says with a HUGE att_tude if you dont like your job then why dont you quit!! I looked at him and said...are you serious!?? If i quit my job we would be underwater cuz your lazy a__s didn't get a job until the other day! (which he starts today) then he had to nerve to say "why are you always starting fights with me?! LOL i just left....i couldnt take it! when it's his turn to work i don't want to hear him complain! LOL he's not going through throwing up...back pain, b___st tenderness...thanks for listening!