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Patience, so sorry to hear you are having some problems right now. Just try to take it easy without stressing because your baby is most important. Everything else will work itself out....good luck....I also wanted to let everyone know i was wrong. I'm having a baby girl. So happy! Prayers to all!
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Well I guess I won't be on this post anymore girls. Our baby has pa__sed away. We saw the consultant today who was very nice and supportive but was sure it would be inevitable baby would pa__s away very soon given the seriousness of the concerns on the scans. She then scanned me and baby's heart is not beating. I felt them moving last night so it likely happened in the last 12 or so hours. I go into hospital Sunday to be induced and deliver our precious baby. We will then get to hold them and say goodbye. I will be 3 days away from 22 weeks. I am so scared. Please anyone who prays, please pray for me and my husband Tim. Thanks and thanks for all the support and encouragement in recent days. I wish you all the best with your pregnancies and babies and lots of love to you all. I wish I wasn't parting ways and was still an expectant mummy with you. God bless xxxx
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God bless you and your family, Ali. I'm very sorry to hear what happened! I'm never good at saying things in these types of situations, but know that we're praying for you!
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OMG Alison I am so sorry.....you and your family will be in my prayers...
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Oh Allison, I am so sorry! I will be thinking of you and praying that God helps you and your husband through this.
Patience- Again, so sorry to hear of your troubles. Glad to be here for you to vent to. We all need that, sometimes!
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Alison, I am devastated and so upset for you, Im so sorry. This is so tragic that you had gotten so far. I know you must be feeling so scared and heartbroken and angry, all at once. Its not fair how some of us have to go through the most awful things. I do pray and I will include you in mine and know that you are in all our thoughts. I hope when you hold that tiny precious baby you get some peace that maybe its better to loose them now than 4 months down the line. I know nothing will help that pain you are feeling. I wish you and your family all the best, hug your daughter and take some comfort that you have her and that hopefully you will have another chance soon, if thats what you would like. Take care over the next awful few days and all the best x x x
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hey ladies.. i just had a question, what is the reason we are not sopossed to eat hot dogs?? My doc said that i could eat them some times. But man is it hard, being summer and all, and going to all kinds of BBQ. Someone told me because of all the sodium, but i think there are much more sodium f illed foods.. just wondering if anyone knew, i keep forgetting to ask the doctor.. because i have so many other questions.....
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Ashley- you can occasionally eat hot dogs as long as they are cooked to a temp. of at least 160 degrees. Also avoid deli meats during your entire pregnancy unless you heat them before eating them. The reason for both is listeria which can be found in both if not handled properly. Listeria has been known to cause complications such as birth defects & still birth. It is killing me not being able to eat a hoagie, but I've fought the urge- I told my b.f. I want an italian hoagie in the delivery room so I can eat it right after our daughter is born, lol.
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Gosh I don't even know where to begin. Ali- You and Tim are in my thoughts and prayers- I wish I had words for you but I don't. I just wish you guys the best and know you will at least now have a little angle watching over you all!
Patience- Ugh I am so sorry for you...I don't know what happened but I am a__suming it had to do with not being faithful given your feelings about the situation. I don't know what I would do if I were in your situation. I wish I had good advice
MissP- hang in there and keep us updated!!!
Deli meat and hot dogs...I have heard the same thing about the listeria and actually stayed away from it completely with my first pregnancy because I heard about it on this forum...Well I asked my doc this time around about it (my clinic is apart of the Mayo Clinic- not that it is better than anything) and he says he has never heard of this before...that made me a little uneasy to know that he doesn't even know what the reason is. But I have heard many times that the listeria thing could happen. I just head my deli meat
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Hey guys 25 weeks tomorrow. Me and dh are trying to work things out. Im completely miserable and dont know if Im doing the right thing. Im barely hanging in there and know I need to talk to someone but I dont have the courage to. We've just never had any problems before. We have been really distant from each other since he came back from iraq the last time (5 months ago) but I still was so in love with him and I thought it would pa__s. I feel like Im watching a bad movie that I cant shut off. Like I said, I just never in a million years thought he was capable of what he did. Our entire relationship I have never distrusted him for a second. He was always the ideal guy and so loving and affectionate, (except since he got back). I guess this is what war can do to people. This was his 3rd time over there. Hes spent more time in Iraq or away from home training than we have spent together in our relationship and he wasnt even in the army when we met. Im sorry for posting this, just again needed to get it off my chest. And again, if you are reading this and new to this post, I do NOT want any advice about staying or going. I think this is something I need to figure out on my own. I just wish I knew whether or not we would ever be able to get past this or if it will haunt us for the rest of our lives if we stay together. To complicate things worse we have the baby coming which is stressful and we are trying to find a place to move and he is slotted to leave us for another year next spring. What if this is just too much and not enough time to where if this was salvagable it wont be. Am I supposed to wait another year to hope for something that might not exist any more? Just pray for me and for my marriage. I guess thats all I can ask for.
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Oh Patience- I am sorry- I am sure it is so hard because you want to come on here and talk about the situation= you just need to vent but yet you still have that part of you that wants to protect him because you love him and you don't want others to thing bad of him. That's how I would feel anyway. Hang in there- I am thinking and praying for you. This is a lot for a person to take in just everyday but when you throw a kid and pregnancy in the mix it is not good....just try to take some "YOU" time.
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How are all my Oct mommies?
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hello ladies.. how is every one doing today...
i just got done work, and boy am i happy, i work on my feet all day and i am just soo exhausted when i get home from work these days. I'm sure it will only get worse lol..
besides that i have been feeling great, people are starting to be able to tell that i am preganant, and the speical attention doesn't bother me one bit.. well not yet... lol..
but i hope all is well with the rest of you ladies and i will talk to you soon
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I'm here Ashley! It's been pretty lonely! :)
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Hi, ladies. I am here but I am not going to post on this forum anymore. Pregnancy should be a happy time for everyone and happiness and support is not something that I can provide to others right now let alone myself. I hope all of your babies are born beautiful and healthy. I hope mine is too. Thanks for all of your support.
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