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I just recently found out i was pregnant so last night i told my boyfriend an he just made jokes about it like.." i'm moving to mexico!' & " it ain't mine!" ! How do i get him to realize that this is serious..and what will i do if he leaves me??? I am going to have this baby and i dont want to do it alone! Any advice??
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Tori, Your only 13..there are options....Abortion, Adoption? I'm sorry to say this but why are you having s_x at 13? May i ask how old he is?
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Im so sorry honey but he is a child too...I really feel your confusion and fright. Please talk to someone a guidance counsellor...ANYONE older with something good to offer. You have your entire life ahead of you ...Many many more good men to come...Please think about this...If you have this child your life will change forever.....But remember sweetie there are options. :)
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i think i am just gonna get an abortion....i think that this is the best option i have right now,......thanxxxx 4 ur help!
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Tori, I had an abortion when I was 17..I had a hard time too....I got over it and I can't even remember the guys name parctically..I think you have a lifetime ahead of you! And you will have babies in the future with a wonderful who will not act like a stupid punk! Good luck baby girl!
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PLEASE get on the pill ASAP! Protect yourself and your future..!
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Dont just go on the pill use a condom as well because that lowers your chance of getting pregnant i got pregnant after being on the pill fora year and a half
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Your boyfriend sounds like an immature idiot and doesnt seem to be taking the situation seriously. Is he thirteen as well? Then that would explain him being so goofy..........girls develop maturity at a faster rate than males...anyways......if he leaves you...oh well. Do you really think you are going to be with this guy your whol life? Your THIRTEEN. You haven't experienced anything yet! What you do have is your family and close friends and those are the people that you need to draw support from. And tell your little boyfriend to get lost and come back when he is serious about the situation..and if he doesnt come around...then you will just have to be brave and seek comfort in the fact that you are bringing a little human being into this world that is apart of you! Good Luck!
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TELL YOUR MOM. Its scary, I know, but she can be the only person who can really help right now.
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Darling...don't make any decisions right away...perhaps I've posted this too late. I really think you should talk to someone...even your mom as scary as that sounds. You have to have as much support as possible to have an abortion or have the baby, neither is going to be easy. Really really think about it. You are young but some times we need to stand up for our actions and take responsiblity, we can't always get off the hook. Either way get on the pill AND use a condom...there are so so many nasty std's out there and the pill isn't going to stop them. Even if you think someone is clean chances are they aren't and don't even know it. Good luck and keep us posted!
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thanks for all of our posts....i have told my mom and now she thinks i am a s___t...but i am going to the doctor on tuesday and i will continue to update yall.
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IM SO SORRY BUT YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT BOTH OF YOU ARE JUST KIDS AND HAVING A BABY IS A BIG RESPONSIBILITY TRUST ME IM ONLY 18 AND I HAVE A LITTLE BABY GIRL THATS ONLY 6 MONTHS AND I WORK FULL TIME AND IT'S REALLY HARD TO TAKE CARE OF THEM NOT ONLY THAT BUT ITS REALLY EXPENSIVE.... IM NOT TELLING U TO HAVE AN ABORTION BUT IF I WAS 13 I WOULD REALLY TAKE IT IN CONSIDERATION BECAUSE YOU HAVE A WHOLE LIUFE AHEAD OF YOU AND YOUR SO YOUNG..... YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE THAT COULD REALLY TELL YOU HOW IT IS....
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There are so many people out there that can't have children and would give your baby a great life. Think about your unborn child. You already were irrasponsible for getting pregnant. Don't make another irrasponsible decision by getting an abortion. That is so selfish, your baby didn't ask to come into this world at least give your precious miracle a chance at life with a family that will take care of and love him or her with all of their heart.
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OH, Honey your not alone. I've helped people out with what ever it was I could. I'll help the best I can. That is if you'll let me. and who knows maybe we'll end up being friends. contact me (m bostick 25 at yahoo dot com).
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