| J - March 5 |
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A guy friend and I had s_x a few times and they were all protected but, now I`m pregnant. He doesn`t know and neither does my parents. I don`t know how to tell them or what to do. I don`t want an abortion and I don`t want to give the baby up but I might need to. I`m scaired and I don`t know what to do. What should I do? I need some friends who understand what I`m going through. Please email me at lovechild12192@hotmail.com I`m scaired
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Honey, you need help. First, I would start with some s_x education. Second, follow it with school education. Third, follow it with life education. 13 years old is too you to be goofing around with these consequences. How old are these boys? How can you call this guy a friend. He has just used you, you know that don't you. What should you do? Tell your parents, tell his parents, tell the police and go to church on sunday.
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J-You need to tell the father of the baby about your pregnancy, that is the FIRST thing you should do. You need to know his reaction and if he is willing to be there for you. Secondley...you NEED
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to tell your parents. I suggest maybe breaking the news to the "easygoing" parent so you will have some support with the other one. Or tell a trusted adult, family member or friend who can accompany you when telling your parents. Maybe it will make it a bit easier to let it out. And lastley, you are going to need prenatal care, so whatever you do make sure you visit a doctor or a free-clinic and take care of yourself for you and your baby's sake! Good Luck
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just to let you in on a journey you will never forget. first of all, you do need to tell your parents, just in case he trys to talk you into an abortion, your parents can talk you out of it, because you will definantly regret that! second you need to tell him with someone there like your parents. if you guys were a little older, then i would say do this by yourself , but you both are still kids to talk about this like adults.next you need to get an obgyn doctor and start going to them asap. being so young, you are going to need constant care. and to tell you the truth, your body is still growing, and not to scare you, but this could be a dangerous situation, and you dont need to take it on your own.
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J how is everything going? Did you tell anyone that you are pregnant!!
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