16 Pregnant And Feeling So Down
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ok so im 16 and 12weeks pregnant by a total loser (haha finally realised what a p___k i had as an ex bf, although i let myself 4get this at times), but have managed to get a new bf, who was also my best friend. but hes just found out his dads moving him 170miles away from me bcos of a new job :( im gutted! just as i was gettin my life bak on track frm the hurt my 26yr old ex caused me. he pretends to care about me but i kno he doesnt giv a shit about either of us bcos he onli got his interest bk wen he found out about my bf. everytime i see or speak to him i let the memorys flood bk and i get absorbed in his lies.how can is top my self frm faling for his lies all over again bcos once my bfs gone i kno il slip bk into the life on my ex's. stupid i kno. but i just feel like ive got nothin. my so called friends r all 2 busy enjoying being teenagers 4 them 2 b able to understand and my mams nt mch help, she seems to busy with her own baby.hes 15mnths. my bf is the onli tru person i can trust atm. i just feel so lonley at times and wonder if i made the right decision about keeping my baby, who i love so much already, bcos my ex is gna keep coming bak and tempting me away which makes me feel so selfish bcos i kno i wont resist him. sorry, just had to hav a moan about this. anyone else in the same boat?
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not in the same boat but havin a struggle a bit with my 7 week old daughter and other issues......do u have msn??
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yer jelly_tot_gal@hotmail.com
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Mammy, you already have a new bf at 12 weeks pregnant with the ex...? Your ex is 26!?! Yikes. It seems that you are doing things at such a speed that you can't keep up with yourself or the consequences. I teach High School, and I would ring any neck of a 26 year old man who preys on teenage girls, that is why statutory rape is a crime! I feel awful for the siutation you find yourself in. You do not need advice or to commiserate with people "in the same boat". You need SANE, ADULT and NON BIASED help and support. Visit a councelor at your school, Planned Parenthood, perhaps call some hotlines to see where a teenager can get help and support in your situation.
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yes ive already got a new bf but hes always been there for me and is the only person that can stop me from drownding in my own tears :( bcos he knows exactly how much my ex hurt me emotionally and how mch he stil is hurting me. i know im not the only girl he is probably doin this 2 bcos he speaks 2 me online then rushes off without so mch as a gd bye 2 see other girls and this kills me. god i hate myself so mch for gettin involved with this "peado" as my bf calls his but i just cant move on no matter how much as i try. i cry so much over him, like i am now and its killin me and then feel so guilty for stil wantin him wen ive got a bf tht loves me more then anything :( :( :(
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What are you going to do about your child?
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what do u mean what am i going to do about my child? i love my baby and will and would do anything for it, which is why i have decided to keep my baby.
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Im in a very similar situation. I got pregnant by a complete idiot that i shouldve have never given a chance to. Then I started dating my new boyfriend and hes amazing then I found out I was pregnant. My ex said he wanted nothing to do with it. But my new boyfriend is there for me. Im also 16 and im 16 weeks
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hey preciousjewel, im happy for u that youve got the love and support from your bf, wish u a happy and healthy pregnancy! x
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my mum also has a 6 month old little boy, my daughter is 8 weeks so it kinda feels like she doesn't have time for me or my little girl at all. i understand how you must feel about not having your friends around. mine were all excited when i fell pregnant but now none of them speak to me. they act like my daughter is some sort of disease or something. if u ever need to chat i have added you to my msn.
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young_mum_to_be --- your kidding me? i cant believe friends would be like that, i thought mine were bad but urs take the buscuit! congrats neway for ur lil girl :)
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I can relate to how you feel, I'm 17 and got pregnant by a complete loser. I'm still in love with him, and I try so hard to keep myself from him everyday. So far so good lol. In the beginning of my pregnancy, I was seriously considering abortion (can't belive it myself) because of unsupportive boyfriend and my unsupportive family. But I'm now 6 months pregnant and I don't regret anything about my unborn son now. Just do what YOU need to do, like keeping yourself healthy and stop worrying about your idiot ex, and get a hobbie or something. Worry about that baby you are going to have. I'm sorry that you go through this the way you are. Good luck.
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kool... im happy for u that youve got ur bf as support. and yeah im starting college next week, not looking foward to it one lil bit lol
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Well I'm 12 weeks pregnant by an a**hole too. I am so happy you decided to keep ur baby! I considered an abortion even though I am so against them. When ur in that situation it seems like the only option, but its not, and we both made the right decision. If you go to the silent scream .com you will know you made the right decision. Good luck!
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Hey, well im not in the same boat but i am 8 weeks pregnant and not sure who the father is.. If you think this guy is gonna make you and your baby unhappy then you need to be strong and stay away from him.. Its all bout you and the baby now and thats the most important thing.. Good luck
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