36 Weeks Prego And Depressed
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Me and my b/f split when I was only 3 months prego, I still want to work things out with him, but he won't even give me the time of day. He acts like I don't exsist anymore, he won't even call and check on me. What should I do? And how am I gonna make it as a single mom?
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For sure you will make it as a single mom, millions are doing it right now. You can be the bread winner and be a woman, I know many that are in the family. This is 2007 girl, don't get down on yourself. This should inspire you even more to be better for your new baby. As far as the ex, you are better off alone than bringing the child into an unhappy home. This will be better for you in the long run to just stop contact with him, and work on yourself. Acceptance is something for you to work on, accept that he is gone. I would give yourself some quiet time to get over him, time WILL help you get over him. Then you will be better off with someone worth treasuring later.
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Thanks for you advice. I try to not have contact with him but we live in the same apt complex! lol (I know it's weird) He is 30 years old and you would think he would know how to be a man! thanks Allisonc79
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brinley I can totally empathy with you. Although my ex doesn't live in the same building as me...he and I were together for sooo long that we have pretty much the same circle of friends. Alot of what he deemed "his" friends told him to F*** off after what he did and then some tried to stay friends with both of us. Anyways I still seem to run into him. And he wont give me the time of day. You will make it. He split when I found out at two months prego I am now about to pop. And it does get easier I am not going to lie and say that I never think about my ex, but I have gone weeks without it. Good Luck!!!
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your welcome. Is there any way to get away? I know its hard, but close or not.. you can still avoid seeing him as much as possible. In the meantime I would suggest trying to get out of there. I can only imagine how much harder it would be to live so close..
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Allison- It does make it harder sometimes but the good thing is that we work seperate shifts and never see each other, maybe in pa__sing once a week, but I think he is moving in July. If he would act right it would be nice to have him that close to help with the baby..if he wanted anything to do with her. But thanks for all your advice it's nice to know someone is on your side. :)
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