3 Months Pregnant, Need Relationship Advice !!!
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Hello everyone i’m sharing my current situation in hopes of getting some advoce.So i’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years i’m 22 and hes 26.I found out I was pregnant a month ago with my first child.It was unplanned. He’s never really worked, only temporary jobs here and there so I’ve aleays been the one to support the house and even care dor his most basic needs like clothes and shoes. I thouugh he would change with the pregnancy but it seems that its worse! He ignores me all the time, spends 4+ hours playing video games and always says he will look for job but he never does. He get’s really angry and fustrated when I confront him and try to get him off his butt. Tells me to leave him alone and give him time to find a job. I have no idea what I should do, i’ve always dreamed of having a perfect family and my kids having a lovely and caring father but I just don’t know if he will ever step up. At the same time i’d hate for me to stay in such a toxic relationship where I don’t get any help. I’m just so fustrated with myself for allowing myself to have lost so much time and hard work with such a person and now it’s worse sinse i’m carrying his baby and I don’t know i’f I’ll ever be with another person while being a single mom.
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Pisces, you are supporting a gaming addict. Thre is little chance that anything you do or say is going to change him. It's tough to break loose from this kind of situation, but for your own peace and sanity it has to be done. At 22 you are still in the prime of your dating years. Why not get on the Internet and start looking around. Will your own family help you through this transition?
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