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Ok Ladies, here is my situation....
I am 22yrs old and 36wks preg with a girl. Me and the father split when I found out I was pregnant. I left him because I did not want the stress of a boyfriend and being pregnant at the same time. The father wants to be in the baby's life, I talked to him up until I was 5 mo, then I didn't hear from him for a couple of months. I called him the other day, to see what was up. He said his phone broke and could not get into it to get my number out of it. I thought it was a lie but found out that it wasn't. We are on friendly talking terms. He wants the baby to have his last name, he seems to be really interested in taking care of her. I told him that she was getting my name. But I am considering giving her his last name. The whole last name thing does not seem to make much of a difference to me. He seems more concerned with it than I do. I don't know what the importance of last name is, I know with a boy it carries on in the family. But I don't know what the legal matters are of the last name. I am thinking about surprising the father with giving her his last name. Please all advice would greatly help.
My next problem is that I need to learn to relax.... The father has a girlfriend, I am worried that she will cause problems. The father said that no one will come between him and his child, and that he would put her in her place if she tries anything. His mother said that she would set the girlfriend straight too. The reason I worry is because she is 25 and told the father that she is pregnant by him, but.. she did not show him the test and I heard that she was lying. If she can lie about being pregnant, I can only imagine what problems she would try to cause. I don't know how someone could lie about being pregnant, that is a serious thing to a male or anyone for that matter. I think that the girlfriend will have jealousy problems, because the father plans of spending alot of time with daughter. I am sorry, I just need to vent and advice on how to keep calm. I am a worry wart person, especially now that I have someone else to care for. I know I probably sound crazy or confused, but I am very confused and these pregnancy hormones are not helping any, lol :)
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