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update: well the baby daddy wants to try and take the baby from me but still has no contact with me EVER he has a new girlfriend and said he doesnt love me any more. We were togrther for 10 months and never fought a single time and couldnt get enough of eachother now he acts like i dont exist. Im so depressed and lonely and stupid me still loves him. His family still talks to me but doesnt know what to say cuz he doesnt talk about the situation other than wanting to take the baby from me. How could this be happening to me. I cant take it anymore. Im happy about the baby but dont want to do this with out him.
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I'd laugh in his face. He wants to take the baby FROM you? Idiots that make these idle threats only make themselves look like the fools they are. I'm a__suming he no grounds, correct? In other words, are you a threat to the child.. are you on drugs or will you otherwise be putting the child's life in danger? If not, let him babble on aimlessly, spewing his ignorance - and keep away from this man.
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I know you love him hun and I know its hard but trust me, if hes doing this to you then hes not worth being in your life. its okay to still talk with his parents because it is their grandchild and just because their son turned out to leave you high and dry doesn't mean they dont have a right to see their grandchild. Its good in a way that they still speak to you because that lets you know that they dont feel what hes doing is right and in some way can lend support. Where are your parents in all of this? Maybe you can talk to them about the situation and ask for their help so that your not alone and you have some emotional and physical support at your side. You need to just relax and take a deep long breathe because your little bean is growing in you and will always be with y ou. He has no grounds to take the baby away from you unless you are physically a threat to the child. Dont let him get to you because his silly mind games are just trying to get you upset and feeling liek you can't do it. As for you feeling lonly its because hes playing another head game with this new girlfriend hes brought in his life. its obviously meant to upset you and its working. I know its hard. But you need to move on and prepare for the baby. Make sure he pays child support and I would still grant him supervised visitation to the child while you are in the room. Goodluck and I hpoe this all helps. I know its hard. But you can do anything if you believe you can. Do it for your baby.
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Hunny. Its a mindgaame and hes trying to get a hold of you and trying to manipulate your thoughts to benifit him. He can't take that baby away from you....by the way did you ever get your other two children back? And hun...your not going to get an explination and you just have to take the fact that hes being an a__s and that he never really loved you. I'm sorry this ishappening..but hes not going to aplogize and I wouldn't even try talking to him anymore. You need to move on. Just make sure he pays child support.
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