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Hi I am new here but it seems like this is a s very supportive place. I just found out I was pregnant on New Years Eve(Big Shock!!) I ended things with my man because of his lack of support and his insistance on me getting an abortion. He was not the least bit supportive or understanding; he's just selfish. My "friends" who I have confided in have been acting very weird and I feel alone. I want this baby but today I am feeling very sad. My ex says he loves me and wantsme back but I feel it's only for s_x. I just need alittle support and encouragement. Thanks ladies for taking the time to read this.
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Wow finding that out on New Years is a big shock! Sorry your here with us but glad that you found us. Well having the baby is your final say. But don't base it on him cuz you might regret it. It's hard being alone and prego i am in my 6 month with an older child all from the same dad and he's a complete jerk! We have been toatlly broken up over a month but i'm dealing. It's hard but my kids come first. I complain alot on here about my ex and how i can still feel for him. Have you told your family? I am sure they will be supportive and your friends maybe they are in shock but talk to them and ask them whats up. If your ex knows your going to keep the baby and still wants you back just be careful if you do. I wish i can give yo uadvice but i cant do much for my own situation. Good luck.
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I can relate. I searched "Single and Pregnancy" and lone behold, there are many other women like me. I know it is an awful feeling. I am having a very difficult time right now too. My ex broke up with me about 2 months ago saying he does not know if he wants a commitment..after 2 years. Well, I am 2 months along and he has made it clear that we are DONE. It is hard because I have much support from my family, but HE is the one I wish I had it from. It is somewhat comforting to know I am not alone. Hang in there..
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Don't let him make you feel crummy. My ex also made me feel horrible and wasn't supportive one bit. All he could think about was himself. He broke up with me shortly after I got pregnant. For a while the only time that I would hear from him is when he wanted s_x. Now that I am 8 months along and showing... I never hear from him. The last time that we spoke was 2 months ago. Hopefully yours will be better and not just want you for s_x. How long have you been with him? Anyways, just know that you aren't alone, there are many of us that are scared and dealing with jerks just like you. Take care and good luck:)
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Thanks for everyone's kind words. The past few days have been better. The father called me and asked if we could work things out. He explained his point of view to me and told me he was scared. I let him that I would not abort as long as the baby was healthy and said he would be there for me if that was my choice. i am actually suprised by this I thought he was gonna take the easy way out. Only time will tell what is going to happen with us. We love each other but this pregnancy was totally unplanned and unexpected. We have only been together since August and the baby is due this coming August! Everything happens for a reason. Please pray for me and our baby as I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
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I'm sorry to hear...It must be hard with being emotional and all to endure such selfish behavoir from these guys! I hope it works out for you Cindi! Hang in there God has a funny way of making things work for us all!
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