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I tried to conceive for months, but was unsuccessful due to irregular cycles. NOW there is a large possibility I conceived...YET I have a problem with my s_xual partner..the potential father. I honestly do not feel he is the type of man I would want to help raise my child. Some would say the honorable thing is to inform him, but I believe keeping the news from him would be in the best interest of the child, and myself. Sometimes what seems to be an immature action, in the long run, turns out to be for the best. I am prepared to be single and pregnant. I know all my son/daughter will need is me, because I know I will be all he/she will ever need. Any other single pregnant lady out there who is making this decision as well?
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Yes. I debated not telling the father of my baby as well for a slew of reasons I have mentioned elsewhere on this forum. I ended up letting my conscience get the better of me and told him about the pregnancy. BIG MISTAKE. It didn't change anything EXCEPT led to his constant harra__sment, and then I needed to file for a restraining order. If I had to do it over again, I would have waited until after the baby was born, which by that time he will be in prison, and informed him then.
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To mischelly30......That constant hara__sment is exactly what I want to avoid. I don't want to go through cops, paperwork, courts. Reason being is since he is older than me (10 year difference) and has a stable job, they will grant him visitation and possible part custody. His age and career do not deter from the man he is (demanding, controlling) nor the street life he leads (let's just say he's involved in the illegal things). That sort of man shouldn't be allowed to have contact with his children, because of the ill influence he can have. A baby cannot and will not change a man's path. I don't expect it at all. That's why I don't want him around. Mischelly, I just hope the information I keep is never heard by his ears.
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Well, first things first....first you need to know if you're actually pregnant, right? Keep us posted! Good luck...
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For sure, I'll keep you posted. Thanks. :-D
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CENO: I can understand your reasoning if, say, the pregnancy was unplanned. But you stated that you have been trying to conceive "for months". Why? If this man is so terrible why have you been using him to get you pregnant? Eye and hair color are not the ONLY things we inherit from our parents!
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