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Im 38, and have a 12 year old daughter, i had been on my own for a few years when in jan this year i got together with my next door neighbours lad. We had a very intense relationship he being oly 23!. I fell hook line and sinker he told me he loved me and that he would never leave me, then 3 wks ago we went away for the weekend he stayed with me on the sun night but in the morn he was very quiet gave me kiss and said he see me later,mon he wouldn't speak to me but tues he txts me to say sorry but its over, no reason why. Im gutted and im finding it hard to understand why hes done it to me,he avoids me like i've got the plague and to make matters worst ive just found out im pregnant and he lives next door. I txt him to tell him, and hes basically told me to terminate it as we are no longer to together, i won't we both agreed to this baby it was no accident and his att_tude is like " i brought this but don't want it anymore can i have a refund please" im sorry but you don't treat a baby like that. I swing from being angry to being i can't go on anymore its rollarcoaster of emotions and im struggling. I want to be strong and defiant and show him im not bothered but then i want to move house so that i don't have to see him im dreading summer when his family will start having bar b ques and parties and he has a new girlfriend and im 5months and single but why should i move ive been here 10 years but its so hard my family and friends have been fantastic

To millie; what an a__s this guy sounds like! He agreed to have a baby with you and obviously was doing the deed with you and now he's backing out? Do his parents know about this? It must be very hard for you to live next door to him and act like this doesn't bother you or nothings happened. I commend you for going thru with the pregnancy! I have a daughter that will be 12 in May and I'm currently 23 weeks pregnant with a boy, I'll be 33 when the baby is born. I feel like I'm starting all over again because there will be such a big age difference between my kids. I'm in a pretty bad situation as well, long story, but the father does want the baby and does want to be in the baby's life although he still acts so much like a child himself and our relationship is full of problems! Keep your head up and know that what you’re doing is all for your baby and this jerk will regret walking out on you and the baby eventually. Oh, how is your daughter taking the news of having a sibling on the way? Just curious because mine wasn’t too happy at first but has now come around and is getting excited.

thanks for your reply, my daughter is quite excited but how she will be when the baby comes is a different matter. Its been my daughter and me since the beginning and I think there could be jealous times ahead. She's also going through the teenage faze at the moment which does not help. I not sure if hes told his parents or not, they use to speak all the time but now they keep out of my way his step mum still speaks, but i get the impression hes said things, i wouldn't be surprised if hes told them i trapped him into it. But in about 5 months time it will be pretty obvious that im pregnant, i just wish he would move away and let me get on with it.