Boyfriend Doesn T Want The Baby

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Andrea - July 25

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we have a 3 year old together he was so happy about our first, But I am pregnant now for the second time and he's really mad about it. I got off birth control and he knew it because I was gaining weight I put on 20 lbs and lost it right after I got of birth control. I didn't get pregnant until 5 months later and he's treating me like a piece of c__p I feel terrible I want to leave him because he doesn't want the baby. I'm so mad I can't even cry about it. He's saying all these mean things like I'm trying to hold him down, and to continue with my plan..... what plan???? He likes the house spotless and I do most of the cleaning and I haven't done a thing for 4 days since I found out I was pregnant and his disturbing reaction. I was not expecting this I'm to embarrassed to talk to family or friends about this. What should I do, or say?

 

To Andrea - July 25

Where abouts are you located? I will be glad to help you out with your little one if you need a hand. I am child care certified, & currently work part time at a local day care. I know a lot about babies and children, and I even have some extra clothes from these two children (1 boy, 1 girl) I used to baby sit a whole lot and I bought them clothes to keep as extras at my house. Your boyfriend honestly has no right to be treating you this way. You should not be embarra__sed at all to talk to your friends and family about this. If your friends do not support you in this, they are not true friends. If you ever need anyhelp, even something such as simple as a word of advice...let me know. I will be checking this thread often. Good luck. Blessed Be. :)

 

22 Momma - July 27

Hey, I am 22, with a 1 and a half year old. I know how hard it is to be a single mom, and if you need any advice just ask. Best of luck.

 

Hey - July 28

Start by sitting your family and friens down, and start explaining the situation, then wait for their responces. Like the first person whom posted said...if your friends do not support you in this....they are NOT true friends. Good luck, and take care.

 

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