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My BD and I split last Nov right after a pos preg test. He was mentally & verbally abusive and told me to get an abortion. He told me everything would be back 2 normal if I did. I didnt. I chose my baby. I told him goodbye in an email and he said it was best 4 us to part because he didnt know if he wouldnt physically hurt me if I stayed, so it was best for baby & me. I was alone my whole preg and 2 weeks before i had baby I contacted his family who had no clue. His mom offered to raise my daughter but i declined. He was angry I told his family but seemed to come around contacting me before baby was born. He currently lives out of state so he missed the birth but i let him name her. I havent heard from him since alexis was three weeks she is 2.5 months! I have no way of contact other than i/m and email. I still love and miss him so much that it is interfering with my daily life. I cant move on, any suggestions?
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I think you are worth so much more than this guy. He is obviously a dead beat and you and you baby can do so much better. You sound like a lovely lady and should try move on and forget him. You shouls thank your lucky stars that you got out with your's and your babies health intact. Take care.
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hia. im sorry your ex is acting like this, im sure men were born stupid bcos mine is just as bad, he doesnt give 2 f**ks about me or my baby and it disgusts me tht he can act this way and b so heart less. i also feel exactly the same as you, a second doesnt go by wen i dnt think about him and let my self miss him then end up crying. im happy for u that you had the courage to say goodbye to him bcos i know im never goin 2 b able to do this, im so weak wen it comes to him. just concetrate on ur baby and eventuali the hurt wil go away (so im told). x
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