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A month ago my b/f at the time and I decited to have a baby, now that im pregnant he decides that hes not happy and walks out. now we barly talk and when we do he seems mad. One night we where laying in bed and holding eachother then that morning he said hes not happy and packs his stuff and left. It hurts so bad. I cant understand why out of no where. Do u think hes just scared of the baby or do you think he really wasent happy. when we talk he acts like i broke his heart. what kid of guy wants a kid with u then decieds hes not happy after he gets you pregnant. can someone please help me understand. did i do something wrong?? :(
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no you didn't do anything wrong, he is probably really scared about being a parent and may come around or there are other factors. Did you asked him why he isn't happy anymore? But you didn't do anything wrong.
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no never did ask why, it just happen out of nowhere.
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well without being able to get into his head specifically I would have to go with the scared thing. That he has decide the responsibilities is too much and is taking it out on you. But it could be another reason but if he doesn't give you one it is more than likely that one, which means he could come around or not. He may need time, it really sucks that guys do this but it seems to happen too often.
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Sweetie, you and your boyfriend deciding to have a baby was what felt right at the time.....you thought that you were in a stable relationship. However, I feel that it is important to be married before planning a family. If a man can prove that he is commited and devoted to you, he is less likely to run out on you in times like these. I am not saying that marriage doesn't have it's problems. Things like this can happen anytime. But it is less likely to happen when married. This man is not bound to you in any way. He can get up and leave no strings attached simply because he changed his mind. But...what's done is done and you have a wonderful little baby on the way. You need to show him that you are moving forward-with or without him. Don't worry about this confused man. Focus on your health, your future, and the baby. Maybe in time he will come around. But definitely don't sit around waiting for him. You have plans to make for this baby! Take care and good luck.
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