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My name is Amy, i'm a 28 year old single mother of 2 beautiful girls and i'm also 20 weeks pregnant. About 2 weeks ago my boyfriend just up and quit his job and moved out of town to be with a girl he met online. He was the one who worked and provided all income for our family. Now i am alone with my 2 girls and one on the way and have no income. I am so depressed, I find myself crying all the time, constantly worried about the future and how I am going to do this all on my own. I have a hard time getting out of bed, i've lost weight. I am so hurt and mad at this man for what he has done to our family, i just cant handle all the pain and i dont know how cope. It's not fair
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Hi hunny everything will be fine...If you dont mind me asking where do you live?I live in Indiana.If you need a friend I would be glad to talk and listen to you. noterdamelady@yahoo.com everyone needs a friend
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i am so sorry to hear ur story. please dont get depressed. thats wat he wants-to see you lose control and get depressed. u have to continue to be strong especially for ur 2 girls and for that lo inside u. and just by the way, are those 2 girls his? u should be able to get child support from him if he is. he cant just leave u like that with no income. if they are his daughters hes gotta pay. at least thats the law in most countries i know...
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there is help for you, you just have to pull yourself together, and not be ashamed to get it. You kids need you, and they cant see you falling apart. Be strong, and dont let this loser ruin your life.
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Well, you are going to need some sort of a game plan to care for you and your girls. Do you work or have any work experience? You could look into the nearest junior college and enroll next semester.(or the one after you have your baby) You would definetly qualify for some sort of financial aide and get help with daycare. Apply for welfare and medi-cal or medicaid( depending on where you are from). Look into govt. housing if you cannot afford where you are living now. You can do this girl! It might be hard for awhile but you can make it happen.Enroll in school as soon as you can. You dont need a man to take care of you. Good luck sweetie and I pray everything works out for the best! Do you have any family that you could lean on for support and encouragement? Surround yourself with family and friends!....one last thing.....start a child support case against the jerk. You didn't have those babies by yourself and he is going to help wether he likes it or not!
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