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First of all don't worry about who will date a pregnant woman. You need to worry about you and your baby. There are plenty of wonderful men in the world that except woman who have already had kids. Believe me I know what it is like to feel like you are completely starting over. I had a six month old and found out I was pregnant when my ex husband and i split. Well more like I was tire of all his lying and cheating and abuse and I walked. I was scare to death. I had a lot of support from my family. I got help through aid for my day care. I worked and went back to college. I was actually a lot happier being by myself than I ever was dealing with him. I had to put up with him saying the kids weren't his but dna doesn't lie. Needless to say I have two beautiful kids and a new life that. I have a wonderful husband now that loves me and has raised my boys as his own. So there are men out there.........First you have to start off doing what is best for you. Once you get back in control of your life and taking charge and getting on a plan that works for you and your baby the other stuff will just fall into place. I have been there and there will be times that seem like you just want to give up but trust me don't.....just have faith in yourself and you will do it.

OHHHH SWEEEEETIE! Hello I am gailya i also and 19 and 21 weeks pregnant .......I thought that noone would want me and this baby and that i was a peice of trash and thats all anybody would see...BUT i was WRONG!!! I found out that all men secretly love pregnant women lol there out there I SWEAR! and The father of my baby When i said i was pregnant he basically did three things ...1) put his bank account in his new girl freinds name. 2) Told his girlffreind it couldnt be his. 3) and told me that if i came after him for child support he would "hunt me down" soooo it was hard to hear that from a man who i had been with for TWO years......how to leave a horrible boyfreind....Step one....CALL MOM =P thats what i did. My mother is a bit** but she is my mom and it was the right decision for my baby. Please please dont give up be strong and know that you can take care of this baby alone, Thousands of women do it everyday. Keep your chin up and focus on other things then him like your baby should be kicking right about now..you may not relize it i thought my babys first kick was gas *giggles* anyways BE STRONG / SCREW THE BF/ FOCUS ON THE BABY!!! =)

I feel your pain. My man and I had tons of problems during my first pregnancy. He stayed out late every night and then we would argue about it when he came home. I left him when our daughter was three months old and we have been off and on since. I am five months pregnant againnand he all the sudden quit talking to me. I don't mind being pregnant and single but who the hell wants a single mom with two kids who has never even been married? All I know is my mom was married to my father for eight years divorced with three kids and sure she had boyfriends but no one ever stuck around. Then she met a gut and was with him for five years got pregnant and he left her for it! So then she was a single mom with four kids. We all turned out okay, but she still has not found anyone in all these years that is worth keeping. All I can say is do we really need a man that makes us feel sad or bad all the time? No! We need to think of our babies and try to do what is best for them and provide them with a happy and safe environment. I know it is hard trust me I am soooo sad and angry right now but I try to keep an even temper most of the time. Stress can cause you to lose the baby or have lower birth wieght also stressed babies can be cranky when they come out. so try to relax when you can your baby feels everything you feel so think how wonderful it will be to meet this little person who will love you for the rest of its life and put that person above all else. Take care.

Try to ignore him and concentrate on the baby and the baby's health it is the most important thing for you right now. Its your moment now to injoy the energy what baby gives you and think positive!!!! Don't be scared the pregnancy not forever, you will be soon beautiful and s_xy again, its not like you are not now.